Date men from United States / California / Mill Valley, 44 year old

Date a soulmate from Mill Valley, United States. Note: this section under construction.
A more recent update: I have realized I need to find the mother of my children, meaning, if your fertility is in question, or, desire for that matter, I am not the guy for you. I want children, sooner than...well...
An update(for lack of a better term): did a long hike on the mountain yesterday, still smiling at all the happy people(couples) I saw on the trail and thinking that's what I want. Interested?
Just saw something that made me think how nice it would be to have someone to buy diamonds for.
Writing a profile here is an introspective study of one's self. As I consider what I want in a new relationship I reflect back on old, what was good and what wasn't. I fall in love very easily, and always seem to bump my head when falling out, and it tends to hurt. I'm not a serial dater or anything close and I don't want to be. I also don't juggle. I do commit myself fully, sometimes even obsess. There's nothing quite like that feeling when falling in love and, as it's been a while, I guess I'm finnding I want it again.
More later.
Update: just got talked into really taking this thing seriously, so, in the process of updating everything including exposing myself to the world(photos).
Ohh, this is gonna take some work...is there maybe a consultant I could hire??
This question seems to involve Mino's Paradox(more on that later), and it's hard to answer. I guess I'll know when I see her...or smell her. Until then I'll go with the vanity part: I'm attracted to the slender and curvy, clean and well kept, well mannered, sometimes not(when appropriate), spunky and petite, the easier to throw around(in a loving way)!
Ohh, if you or anyone you know sees any entertainment value in this "Jersey Shore" show, we probably, no, definately will not work.