Date men from United States / California / Novato, 44 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm a funny, real, what you see is what you get kinda guy. I'm compassionate, romantic and loving. I get along with most people but on the off chance I don't it's because that person is just plain lame and I bet no one likes them anyway. I talk to strangers and I find most people fascinating. The human condition baffles me.
I have an overwhelming urge to write some parody version of my description like those Dos Equis ads or perhaps something far more dark and inappropriate and therefore hilarious.
I have two fantastic kids who are quite the characters. They have nicknames like Carls Barkley and Jaso Queso. Smart, athletic and beautiful. Quite the combo. Not to mention funny as hell.
You? Fun, smart, sexy. I dunno. Smart goes along way but I can't deny the physical attraction piece as well. I want chemistry. I want passion. I don't know if you are the one. How does anyone know really? I guess we start with a conversation and if you know who Yo La Tengo are, then all the better.
I firmly believe I can tell what kind of person you are by the music you listen to. Or prove me wrong. That would be pretty cool too Smart Girl.