Date men from United States / California / Los Alamitos, 44 year old

Date single man from Los Alamitos, United States. Ok... Here we go...I am a man who very much likes to give and realize it's not about just having a 50/50 relationship, it's about both giving 100%. If both give a little more, expect a little less, no one gets let down... you can't have a successful relationship when only one person is doing all the leg work.
When the weekend comes around, I'm good ducking out to Happy Hour or throwing on some great music, opening a bottle of red and whipping up a great dinner. I'm pretty flexible... I love to cook and am great in the kitchen. I enjoy cooking for myself, the two of us, or for a room full of friends having a dinner party!! As long as the music is crankin and the conversation is flowing... we're on.
I'm looking for someone who wants to run side by side and be a partner, not a competitor... I am a True Christian, I love my church and go frequently. I am pretty simple deep down and just want to live life having a good time enjoying all the experience that come my way. I'm 44, could pass for 35, and love it when people ask me why I'm always grinning. When I hear that, it makes me feel like I'm living my life like I should be, HAPPILY!
I'm a devoted father and make sure my little girl knows I'm always going to be there for her, no matter what!! She spends half her time with me but I have scheduled our time so it still allows me to have adult weekend fun time. Life has begun again and I love it!! It feels so good I find myself dancing down the sidewalk, smiling the whole way. That's when it's fun to laugh at yourself... I am not perfect but I can say that I've taken the things I've done well in life and built on them while the areas that needed tweaking... Let's just say I've addressed them and made the necessary changes to improve my life. We all get dealt a hand in life...it's how you play your cards that detirmines the outcome..
Please, If you uare one of those women who think that "I'm one who still has a whole lot to learn from getting divorced, please..." with all due respect.. I appreciate it but this is my life we're talking about... I did all my grieving, crying, praying, second guessing, etc, BEFORE I left, like we are supposed to... I didnt take getting divorced lightly. I don't believe in it, but I guess that's the point of divorce, you figure those things out BEFORE you leave otherwise you give it EVERY SINGLE OUNCE THAT YOU HAVE to make it work!!! I did it all and it came back empty, I spent the last two Mother's Day's with my daughter as it was something I was asked to do for her...need I say more? i did it all and it came back empty, thus my decision to move on, Ever since then, every single day has gotten better and better and brighter and brighter... so thanks for your concern but it's really n/a. I was tempted to just put divorced but I'm as I've said, AN HONEST MAN, I'm not here to deceive anyone, you get what you see.... a trustworthy failthful honest man who doesn't make deciscions off the cuff when it comes to family or matters of the heart.