Date men from United States / California / La Costa, 44 year old

Date someone special from United States. I am an authentic, spiritual man who is a committed father, grateful son, loyal friend, helpful neighbor (yes, I actually know who lives near me and they know who I am), entrepreneurial visionary, and passionate-committed-best-friend to my prospective life--partner/ lover... I am rooted in reality, but, as a stereotypical sagittarius, I am VERY playful and fun-loving. Hmmmm.....How, exactly, do I convey the "who" part of me??? We are all, to some extent, in this world playing roles, and as a recovering sales, marketing and PR professional, I find myself wanting to say less inside this box and just hope that my energy exudes who I am and what I am seeking to attract... My best testimonials come from my son, my former wife, my family, friends, clients, co-workers, and people behind the counter at my favorite coffee shop.I know that so many people write what they want to be, and not who or how they actually are in life, so I strive here to be honest, and hope and trust, that whoever reads this, can understand that I actually am writing my truth here, to the best of my ability. I LOVE experiencing life. I have fallen and/or been knocked down hard, many times, and am excited to be still standing tall, having learned from each and every experience. I am NOT what I do, where I live, what I drive, who I am with, what I am wearing on my wrist... I have, at one time in my life, been all of these things. If you want a man who is defined by the label on the inside of his suit jacket, the badge on the hood of his car, or the size of his biceps, then please continue your search... I am secure in who I am, who I am not, what I do, what I don't do, what I want, how I appear, and seek the same in my partner. If you want someone to pay your bills, look good with you at the club, be your kids' dad, or support your emotional neediness, then please keep searching. I am NOT seeking someone to take care of me or my son, as I am fully self-sufficient as a single man and Father, however, I am now ready for The Universe to connect me with my equal. Okay, enough about me. My imperfectly perfect match is 'conscious', spiritually-aware, beautiful inside and out, and is secure in her beauty. She loves being held and adored and is not afraid of public displays of affection. She is private and sensitive, yet is open to be her true, authentic self in all aspects of her life. I seek to be with a woman who is absolutely extraordinary, and completely ordinary at the same time... Let's start with tea or coffee... walks on the beach... maybe then cook dinner... I look forward to skiing, sailing, camping (yup, my kind of woman is as thrilled to sleep in a sleeping bag and tent for a few nights each year as much as she is sliding in between the finest Egyptian cotton sheets). I love travelling, even if it's just a road trip up to Big Bear or a drive out to the dessert to stare at the stars through a telescope. Ultimately, and when the time is right, you'll meet my son. If you like me, you'll absolutely love him, so you need to know and appreciate me for me first. Okay, disclaimer. I am NOT interested in finding people to 'hook up" or have tons of dates in order to keep me busy and entertained. I do not need 'arm candy' or someone to cook or clean for me... I am genuinely seeking someone with whom to enjoy shared activities, and am open for more to be revealed, including, and hopefully, life-long loving committed partnership...