Date men from United States / California / Grover Beach, 44 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. I am a pretty even-keel kind of person - understanding, honest and compassionate. I love witty exchanges and new words. I like order in my life, am principled and dependable. I do not dance, but do admire a skillful dancer without inhibitions.
EL HEFFE I enjoy people who speak their mind, as long as it is thoughtful and on-point. I very much enjoy sex, just do not crave it...yet. Not big on makeup, prefer the natural look. I am not very romantic, but enjoy playfulness and making people smile and laugh. I have a penchant for nice butts...and chocolate chip cookies...not necessarily together.
AT CHARTER My family is extremely important to me. I've got three beautiful girls under 10 - they keep me very busy. When I have free time (every other week) I spend time with friends, at home or at local music bars in San Luis, The Cliffs, Mongo's, Harry's.
I am looking for that special somebody to spend my free-time weekends with. However, after 13 years of marriage, I am not overly eager to devote myself to one person just yet. As you know, the search takes time and I am not one to jump blindly...so I am patient, tentative and keeping my options open.
DOT NET I like to talk about real things in the here and now (we know not what the future holds) and find a direct (...not bossy) woman refreshing (no guessing means no games, right?) but I have interests and intentions as well, so fairness and respect is paramount.
I have not subscribed (got burned monetarily by another site and have other obligations), therefore I CANNOT read what you send OR respond through this site, but I can wink. I understand that this is a huge disadvantage and I am missing many opportunities to meet many wonderful women, but I can be contacted by putting the above words in CAPS together. A bit unconventional and possibly too revealing or forward for some of you, yes...but then again this is a dating site AND there is a very good chance you might kinda like me:).
I am not a salesman, needy, clingy or rude. Be bold. Take a calculated risk and drop me a line or two and hopefully, we'll soon be chatting and laughing together. I look forward to hearing from you!