Date men from United States / California / Indian Wells, 44 year old

Date a soulmate from Indian Wells, United States. I'm a total goof who likes to laugh at/with life and all that comes with it. I just don't like going through life by myself. Since I am not big on hitting the bars, and most of my friends are either much older or married, it's not easy meeting people that I want to spend time with.
Unfortunately, I'm picky as hell! I have yet to meet a woman who is my age that doesn't make me feel like I'm sitting with one of my mother's friends. We just don't relate. I'm a young soul. Haven't changed much except learning from my mistakes.
I'm a definite animal lover (seems to come up a lot in people's profiles). Spent a good amount of time in New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina doing search rescue for the humane society. Best days of my life! Period
I would love to simply meet someone on Match that wants to enjoy the simple things in life. Well spent time. A great dinner. A weekend away. Or doing nothing at all. I'm not difficult.