Date men from United States / California / Mill Valley, 39 year old

Date single man from Mill Valley, United States. Thank you for stopping by. I assume because you are reading this you are interested to some degree, but here’s what you should know about me. I am probably not a good match for you. I know, why would I say something like that right off the bat? Well ordinarily this is where I would make my sales pitch about what a fun, exciting guy I am, and that life with me is like a non-stop exotic vacation filled with laughter and excitement. But I would be lying if I did that. Here’s the reality- I’m not that exciting. I go home every day after work and I just stare at the wall. That’s pretty much what I do during the week. No I’m not skydiving or rock climbing or wind surfing, so there’s no promise of adventure here. It’s just me and my cat. She sits next to me and stares at the wall too. We enjoy doing this nightly activity together. Okay, there might be a TV in front of the wall, but still, that’s what we’re doing. And there’s an occasional happy hour thrown in during the week because I work for a fun gaming company and my coworkers insist on going out. But other than that, I’m not leading the exciting life other guys would have you believe they are leading. When you look at my photos, you won’t see any photos of me doing extreme sports, posing shirtless with my buddies at the beach, or standing next to my sports car. You also won’t see any photos of me where the girl I’m with is obviously cropped out. I have enough decent photos of me to where I don’t need to do that. The other reason I’m probably not a good match for you is that I’m too nice. I’ve been told that by various people over the years. I give too much attention and I do too many nice things. I know, horrible right? What girl wants that?
So if you are willing to overlook these personality flaws, maybe you can message me. And if that goes well maybe we can meet up for a drink. And if you aren’t completely put off by me being nice and attentive, then who knows? Maybe then you can find out if I’m really lacking in excitement :)

Meet a man from Mill Valley, United States. Any excuse to be out in the warmth of the afternoon sun is a good excuse in my book. I work in the science world and love sharing fun facts about our planet. I chose a nonprofit life in science because I want to enjoy my work but not live to work. I made the right choice. I can often be found with a blanket in the sand, on a trail working through the brush or hiking a switchback up a mountain. I'm a bit of a photography nut so the camera often joins me on my adventures but is usually reserved for solo hikes. I do appreciate my independence but also enjoy being social and the intimacy of a partner. I'm quite adventurous and am up for a spontaneous escape or a well planned trip. I also enjoy biking and swimming but no running! I'll ride my bike and cheer you on though if it's your thing. I've traveled quite a bit but not nearly enough. I'm a bit of an introvert but comfortable in a crowd. If they have a dress code, I'm going next door. I'm up for food adventures and know my fair share about wine. I'm just as content cooking and snuggling up with a good movie on the couch as hanging with a group of friends but have no need for the random bar crowd of strangers. You... independent, HONEST, loving, social, not a club rat, not allergic to the outdoors, adventurous, like to travel, playful, and most important... you are comfortable in your own skin. If you are still trying to figure out who you are... please come back later and tell me all about it. did I say I like someone who is playful... yes, playfulness keeps life light. I like it that way and hope you do to.