Date men from United States / California / Indio, 44 year old

Date a soulmate from Indio, United States. Im me an you r u what the out come is ????? Putting expectations leads to let downs so I refrain from such forward thinking. In a perfect world such thing might b aplicable but I dont live there . Im knowing what attracts me an What doesnt. Now here is the thing with that .Ware one ndividual presents it this way (negative. Another could change my opinion about the very same trait or what ever . So I keep my views loose If that makes since at all.