Date men from United States / California / San Diego, 44 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. NOTE: my profile says I don't drink. I'm NOT a recovering alcoholic, I just don't care for the taste of it. I don't care if you drink, it doesn't bother me. (besides, I'm always the designated driver ;-) )
UPDATE: I think my profile is being a bit misunderstood. I am NOT trying to jump into a relationship right now. I want to go through the dating process and take the time to get to know someone with NO PRESSURE on either of our parts. If things work out, great! If not, that's okay too! Please read on and if you like what you hear, I'd love to hear from you.
I've learned a lot in my 44 years on this planet, however, I feel like the last couple of years I have really grown as a person. I finally received my bachelors degree in June and I started my Masters degree in July so that has been a welcome achievement. I really have discovered a lot about myself, and relationships for that matter, over the last couple of years. I've found that sometimes, no matter how hard you try, they sometimes will just not work out. I've also learned that some women are just not ready to be in a relationship, yet they choose to put themselves out there on dating sites for some odd reason. My motto is, "if you don't want the job, don't fill out an application."
Here's the deal ladies. I am a NORMAL, CONFIDENT, man who is looking for a relationship. I have a great job, a nice car, a 401K, good benefits, and I can fix just about anything that I put my mind to. I want to date. I don't want to serial date, I want just one good woman to share my life with. What am I looking for?? Good question. I guess I'll know it when I see it. If you are hung up on an ex or you are a smoker, I'm not interested....AT ALL!!. If you are a loving, caring woman who is looking for the same in a man, we need to talk. I don't NEED someone in my life. I WANT someone in my life. I am completely self sufficient. I cook, clean, do my own laundry, and I do the maintenance on my car. I would really love to just find a (perfect for me) woman who I can call my best friend.
I am a great conversationalist. I love to talk. I think I get that from my mom...she and I can talk on the phone for hours just catching up on things that have touched our lives. I love my mom. :)
I love affection (giving and receiving)!! I love it when a woman puts her arms around me and just hugs me as tight as she can. That is one of the greatest feelings around!! I love the sweet smell of a woman's perfume, the softness of her skin, the way her hair hangs on the side of her face...mmmm mmmm mmmm! Man that is sexy!! I like foo foo girls, you know, make-up, nails done, stuff like that but I also love a girl that can put her hair up in a pony tail, throw on a ball cap, and jump in my Jeep for a day in the desert. Hahaha!! Anyway...enough about that. Here's some stuff about me.
I like to hike, ride my beach cruiser, go to movies, go out to eat, listen to live music, dance, karaoke (yes I said karaoke), and stuff like that. I don't jump out of airplanes. I don't ski or surf. If any of this tickles your fancy, please stop by and say hello. Cheers!!

Meet someone special from California, United States. It’s come to my attention that you’re about to reply to the guy above me in your search. Did you know that he’s known for proposing to women on the first date? Well, the good news is that I’m here to stop you from making a HUGE mistake! I also wanted to let you know I have an arrangement with this site that if you click away from my profile, your account will automatically be deleted so you might as well stick around for a bit, it’ll be fun.
When writing this I thought I could give you a list of facts about myself, like I’m funny, confident, and charming (which would be true, according to reliable third parties of course), but I have a feeling that most of the other men on this site did just that in the hopes that you would find “something” you like. I’m not one to talk about myself but I will say this; I have a passion for life that is rare, enjoy travel, love music (very varied tastes), hiking, and really enjoy the mountains. Whoah, how did that happen? There’s my list I tried so hard to avoid. It’s really just the tip of the iceberg but I’ll let you know more details later if you have what it takes?
I’m looking for someone cool to hang out with where you can just be yourself, no pressure, no expectations, just enjoying each others company and seeing where it goes. If I happen to find a woman where there’s that good combination of chemistry and attraction, then I’d be interested in exploring the possibilities. If something happens it’s meant to be. I don’t like to label any relationship because you never know what can happen and I like to let nature take its course. I’m seeking a quality woman with substance, not just a pretty face. I have met a lot of women but many are shallow or flaky and that’s just not for me. I am looking for that rare combination of attractiveness not only on the outside but also where it really counts, on the inside. I know that girl is out there and when we meet it’s going to be a great experience for both of us.
If your still reading now you must have some interest so send me an e-mail and let’s get to know each other and see what happens.
Oh, and one more thing, make sure you don’t respond to the guy below me either. He still lives with his mom and I’m pretty sure I saw him on Americas Most Wanted last week!

Date a man from California, United States. honest and caring some one who likes to have fun.someone who ejoys the arts and is active and healthy as well.Someone to spend time with who is not co dependtant or leaning on me the whole time.I enjoy the art of martial arts for self defence.dancing,hiking or walking, wieght lifting when i can,bike riding,music ,art and fashion.

Meet single man from California, United States. Greetings and thanks for stopping by-wait don't leave yet...there's more:
An ever-continuing work in progress that involves time and plenty of patience. I'm looking for that "click" or that butterflies-in-my-stomach feeling. Seeking that special someone who will be my best friend. She is the first thought when I wake up and she is my last thought before I go to sleep. Sports enthusiast not required but is open to enjoy Chargers, Padres, Aztecs, (or your hometown teams except Raiders and Dodgers).
I'm not comfortable writing about myself - I don't seek attention, nor do I feel comfortable drawing attention. I guess I'm understated, although shy and quiet at first, I'll open up when I've become comfortable and on the same page with you. Wouldn't mind starting as friends first then growing into a long term relationship. I'd prefer to meet in person so you can hear me stumble on my words or just plain see me stumble because there's "never a dull moment" here! (LOL).
Best wishes and here's to both of us finding our match!

Date a soulmate from United States. I am 42 years old. .Single. very nice. I am looking for a women to spend some time with and make a connection with. Someone who understands how to live life to its fullest everyday. I workout daily and play competitive tennis and teach tennis as well. I have time for a beautiful caring girlfriend and will give you respect and honesty from the beginning.

Meet someone special from United States. A little about me? Ok.
When I’m not riding my bike around my neighborhood I can be found down by the bay and beach putting on some scenic miles.
I’ve been training in martial arts for the past 17 years. This usually keeps me pretty busy so it’s important for me to find someone who has a positive outlook on life and is fun to be around. I like to go out with friends and have a good time, but I still like those nights when I stay home to watch a movie.
If you are selfish or self-centered, don’t bother to replay. I’m looking for someone who’ll respect me and the time we spend together. I’m looking for someone who wants to enjoy all of life’s treasurers together.
Drop me a line if you would like to know more about me. :)

Date a man from United States. I am grateful for everything positive that has happened in my life. Would like to find that special someone to be with and hopefully fulfill what is missing in my life. Things that make me laugh is either a good comedy movieprogram or being with close friends and laughing and joking around with my friends

Meet single man from United States. hi my name is ray .i am 44 .i am a chef my specialty is persian food .i love to swim very much.i like chatting ,watching movies and spending time with reall friends.i do drink just sometimes and am a good boy when i do that.i am looking for a woman like my age who speaks spanish .i speak farsi ,engish turkish and some spanish .i love latin culture and spanish is my favorite language.i can be a good friend .

Date a soulmate from San Diego, United States. Raised a true New Englander, I’m hard-working, driven, no drama, family oriented and God fearing. I’ve always been one to establish long lasting friendship easily and look forward to continue gaining friends in the San Diego area. I’m respectful and easy to get along with – but don’t be fooled, I do have an edge. I believe that life is all about what you make of it and who you make it with. Being adventurous and tackling new challenges keeps me happy and balanced; I just need to find the right woman to share those experiences with. My interests vary greatly and I’m open to anything, but if you don’t find something you like, be assured that what I’m doing isn’t nearly as important as who I’m doing it with. I’m hoping to make a genuine connection with a woman that has a positive outlook and a good sense of humor. I don’t think we can make it through life without laughter. I’m drawn to a woman who is happy, smiles a lot, and enjoys having a great time no matter what we’re doing. Dedicated and loyal to those I love, I’m moral and ethical and expect my partner to be the same. The woman special in my life will find me as supportive of her pursuit of dreams as I would hope she would be of mine. A partner in life begins with a solid friendship and is built on trust, love and friendship. Of course an attractive woman who takes care of herself will always catch my eye, but if she also has a fun-loving spirit of adventure – she might have my attention for a long – long time! If I’m describing you, we need to talk.
There’s more to me of course, and I want to know all about you as well. The way for that to happen is to send me an e-mail so I know you’re interested and we’ll see where it takes us. Who knows? We may both be about to meet the best friend we can’t see ourselves without! I hope to hear from you soon

Meet someone special from San Diego, United States. Just looking to meet new people and enjoy summer. I work overseas most the time, but in San Diego, where I grew up, for 9 weeks and would love to meet some new people. Love the outdoors as well as a good conversations over diner or after a movie play.

Date a man from San Diego, United States. Ah yes. About me. Although not evident here, I am extremely witty and insighful. I have outgrown any type of drama or people who are full of drama. I just enjoy the company of those with whom I vibe well and are basically chill and balanced.
Beyond that I am looking for a femme fatale, a fellow co-conspirator to get into mischief with.
I am attracted to a wry smile and a spark in the eyes.
I have a very dry, absurdist sense of humor and I do love to laugh. I love sharp women that can make me laugh as well...again it gets to the vibing thing. If we vibe well, we'll banter back & forth like a Preston Sturges movie. I've seen it; it's a brilliant thing to behold. It makes me better and it makes you happy.

Meet single man from San Diego, United States. If interested...just ask and I will respond to your queries. It's easier that way don't you think? However, I do want to say that chivalry is not dead... Thanks for dropping by and checking out my profile.