Date men from United States / California / Mill Valley, 54 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I seek to “manifest” what I want in a relationship. So here it goes for what can work for me, leaving room for the magical “chemistry” factor which the Universe will naturally weigh in on.
She will see all the wonder and beauty of life__just as it is.
She will be present, live in the moment, and look me in my eyes when we talk.
She will want to share her opinions about art, books, news, movies, and she will want to hear my opinions. She will enjoy a fine meal with a wonderful wine. She will think I am funny, and I will think she is funny. She may think things are funny that I don't. Laughter is a drug for our relationship. She will be thrilled to see red roses whether it’s Valentines Day, or for that matter, any day. She will want and enjoy cooking with me in the kitchen. She will know how to slice strawberries.
She will need to tolerate my useless skill of naming musicians on FM radio. And be ok with the fact I don’t own an iPod (not yet) and I don’t follow sports. No ice in my water works for me.
She will challenge me, and question me about how I feel, and why I do what I do. She will be more intelligent than me in many domains. She will help me expand my mind, and she will be open and feel safe talking about everything. She will feel comfortable pushing my buttons.
She will forgive me when I have no clue of what American film, less foreign film she is speaking about. She will not think it’s strange that I watch little if any tv/cable. She won't find me sitting and sipping coffee at Peets, or at the MV redwood Island on a weekend, but rather tennis or biking up the railroad grade.
Curiosity, discovery, and awareness drive my direction, but my high energy and appetite for life fuels it. Like me she will "first seek to understand, and then seek to be understood." I believe “You get what you give,” and we give what we want.
She will turn up the thermostat when she is cold without asking me. She does not need to play tennis, but if she does, that really works. She won't protect me from how she really feels about me.
She will have a healthy radiance, presence and enjoy life with warmth and humor. She might enjoy the outdoors and indoors. For me, I won't rough it beyond cabins with great sleeping quarters. I desire to spend the balance of time adoring the beautiful of our country.
She will have the wonder and curiosity that of a child when looking up at the Milky Way___ as if it was the very first time. When she’s not wearing lipstick she may have Carmex on.
She will have a life of her own and communities, and interests that excite her. She may be highly accomplished in her domain and will feel comfortable including me with friends, and me passing on a few. She will assert to leave a fair tip even when dinner service was not so good. She will want to dance late into the night and be carefree. On many evenings she will like to stay in, and do little, or steal a few minutes to work, or relax to evening music.
She will want a easy and naturally flowing relationship where trust, mutually adoration, love, and chemistry fuel intensity.
So if you’re somewhat intrigued by what I seek to manifest and feel we may share similar interests I look forward to you reaching out to me.

Meet a man from California, United States. I'm a recently divorced, 54 yr old financial services professional with two grown children, of whom I'm very proud. Since I'm just dipping my toe back into the social whirl, I'd like to find someone who shares my interest in good food, great wine, engaging conversation on film, sports, politics, and current events. I'm not in a hurry and I'm not a "player". I'm old enough to know that good relationships are rare, and they take time and careful nurturing to bloom.

Date single man from California, United States. Looking for a true relationship in the Tulsa, Broken Arrow area, calm and collective, easy going. Hoping to find friendship which can develop in to a relationship and more. Responsible and passionate for life, live and let live. Love the nature and respect it, be a part of solution. No drugs, no alcohol abuse here, just live a clean fun life. I respect my body alot, don't abuse it. I am not a gambler, drinker or use drugs and financially resposible, I expect the same from my partner.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am an entrepreneur and run my own marketing technology business. But my business side doesn't define who I am, other than indicate I am a kind, open-minded, independent, unconventional, and resilient man with the confidence to make my own path in the world. I'm interested in everything life has to offer. I'm a very supportive listener, and a good conversationalist and writer. I'm not only emotionally available, but I prefer a tight bond with the people in my life. I'd like to get to know a woman who is as interested in a deeper emotional and mental connection as I am. However, I am also very open to different people and interests as quite often a wonderful gift can come from someplace (or someone) unexpected. I'll become an interesting and exciting partner to the right person. I'm looking for a great connection with someone eclectic, fun, and deep.
I've been told often that I look and act at least 10 years younger than my age - but still retain a bit of the wisdom I've gained over the years. This makes me fun and interesting to be around - a mature father figure at times, and a fun and imaginative child other times. And there is nothing I enjoy more than being supportive and giving to those I care about. I typically give a lot more than I ask for in return. If there is a special woman out there who also gives freely of herself, I make a great partner in such a relationship.
FYI, I have been separated emotionally and physically for quite some time. I have no problem with commitment and I'm looking for a long-term, committed relationship with someone who is unconventional and unique, but with solid core values such as integrity and honesty.
My preference is to make a real and deeply personal connection with my partner. That makes getting to know one another and all that entails all the more interesting, dynamic, and emotionally fulfilling. Whatever one's preferences might be, it is important to me to make a strong mind/body connection with my partner.
If I had to boil it down to one thought (even though it is rather broad ;-), I'd say my biggest desire is to find a unique and diverse woman with good communication skills, a tender heart, honesty, and emotional stability.

Date a soulmate from United States. I dream of living in a paradise with a kind, good friend and love of my life. With some more dreaming, building, gardening, painting, writing, hiking -- while mangoes, papayas and avocados ripen in the yard. Perhaps a few sips of cafe from beans growing nearby. Loving life while minimizing our footprints on the planet, giving to a community, sharing family, friends and laughter. Enjoying the fruits of reciprocal, unconditional love...
I've recognized that finding the right partner can be a challenge -- it helps to have flexibility, open-heartedness and open-mindedness -- though magic seems to be an important ingredient. Oh, and lots of forgiveness, for oneself and others. Idealism is not expecting everything to be perfect all the time, it just means knowing and aiming for what is best.
Perhaps we can be in each other's dream -- though happy to take some small steps to see if we are kindred spirits...
For those who wonder, I add: I am over 50, healthy, tall, strong, happy, handsome, etc. - I imagine you are over 40, healthy, strong, happy, attractive, etc.

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