Date men from United States / California / Dixon, 44 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. I am a simple, not in a “simple” way, guy. I, as I have found out, put my kids too high on the priority list. Here is my priority list, God #1, family #2, work #3, and me #4. All the rest falls into place. I have a role to play in this life. My kids need a parent that loves them and is willing to say no. They are a very high priority, but I look to God for the right way to approach the situations. Yes I mess up all the time and have to ask for forgiveness. I have six years before they are all off to college and I don’t want them to not have a dad. In case you are wondering, I would put my spouse above my kids. Her kids would be on equal footing with mine.
I have dated a couple of women who think I am too involved in my kids lives, both were in different places in their lives. So I guess I am looking for a woman who understands and appreciates a dad who places their kids above their own needs. I know I sound intense, but I really am the ultimate smart a--. I have just been a little beat over the head for enjoying being at their games or their recitals. I actually enjoy the time I have with them. I do have them 50% of the time. So one week on, one week off. So it is a balancing act. Early summer is a bit hard, as I get the pleasure of coaching my son’s baseball team. I am not the head coach, but I am always recruited because I was a shortstop in college. I love being with the kids so it isn’t like I don’t love coaching, it does take up a bit of time. The rest of the year I am pretty wide open.
I guess the next big thing to reveal is that I am transitioning from one business to another business. Being single is allowing me to pursue my true love, which is cabinet making. I love all phases of construction, except sheet rocking, I can do it, just don’t enjoy it. A lot has been revealed to me this year at church and through prayer. The biggest is that I have a talent and God wants me to use it. So I am making a big change and I am excited. Good news for you is that I am extremely handy around the house. I can more or less fix anything.
I am honest, hardworking, and loyal as they get. Never been one to date multiple people, really, who has the time or the energy? You women are a handful. I am very sarcastic as I mentioned, love to laugh at myself. With this haircut, I better be able to laugh at myself. I do enjoy working out, usually with a purpose. Right now I am getting into shape for ski season. In winter and spring, I work out just to maintain during the ski season and after last year, I have plenty of time to work out with the lack of snow.
I am looking for the real deal. Someone who is genuine, someone that can forgive, I will mess up, so I will ask for forgiveness. I am looking for someone that would rather be doing than watching, enjoys working out, looks good dressed up but looks amazing in jeans and a hat. I like a woman who is not afraid to jump in my jeep and go for a ride, right now, no doors and no top, so it gets a little windy. Finally, I am looking for a great kisser, nothing sexier in the world, oh and a great butt. Sorry, that is my weakness, love a great butt.