Date men and women from United States / California / Mill Valley, 39 year old

Date men and women from Mill Valley, United States. Thank you for stopping by. I assume because you are reading this you are interested to some degree, but here’s what you should know about me. I am probably not a good match for you. I know, why would I say something like that right off the bat? Well ordinarily this is where I would make my sales pitch about what a fun, exciting guy I am, and that life with me is like a non-stop exotic vacation filled with laughter and excitement. But I would be lying if I did that. Here’s the reality- I’m not that exciting. I go home every day after work and I just stare at the wall. That’s pretty much what I do during the week. No I’m not skydiving or rock climbing or wind surfing, so there’s no promise of adventure here. It’s just me and my cat. She sits next to me and stares at the wall too. We enjoy doing this nightly activity together. Okay, there might be a TV in front of the wall, but still, that’s what we’re doing. And there’s an occasional happy hour thrown in during the week because I work for a fun gaming company and my coworkers insist on going out. But other than that, I’m not leading the exciting life other guys would have you believe they are leading. When you look at my photos, you won’t see any photos of me doing extreme sports, posing shirtless with my buddies at the beach, or standing next to my sports car. You also won’t see any photos of me where the girl I’m with is obviously cropped out. I have enough decent photos of me to where I don’t need to do that. The other reason I’m probably not a good match for you is that I’m too nice. I’ve been told that by various people over the years. I give too much attention and I do too many nice things. I know, horrible right? What girl wants that?
So if you are willing to overlook these personality flaws, maybe you can message me. And if that goes well maybe we can meet up for a drink. And if you aren’t completely put off by me being nice and attentive, then who knows? Maybe then you can find out if I’m really lacking in excitement :)

Meet someone special from Mill Valley, United States. Any excuse to be out in the warmth of the afternoon sun is a good excuse in my book. I work in the science world and love sharing fun facts about our planet. I chose a nonprofit life in science because I want to enjoy my work but not live to work. I made the right choice. I can often be found with a blanket in the sand, on a trail working through the brush or hiking a switchback up a mountain. I'm a bit of a photography nut so the camera often joins me on my adventures but is usually reserved for solo hikes. I do appreciate my independence but also enjoy being social and the intimacy of a partner. I'm quite adventurous and am up for a spontaneous escape or a well planned trip. I also enjoy biking and swimming but no running! I'll ride my bike and cheer you on though if it's your thing. I've traveled quite a bit but not nearly enough. I'm a bit of an introvert but comfortable in a crowd. If they have a dress code, I'm going next door. I'm up for food adventures and know my fair share about wine. I'm just as content cooking and snuggling up with a good movie on the couch as hanging with a group of friends but have no need for the random bar crowd of strangers. You... independent, HONEST, loving, social, not a club rat, not allergic to the outdoors, adventurous, like to travel, playful, and most important... you are comfortable in your own skin. If you are still trying to figure out who you are... please come back later and tell me all about it. did I say I like someone who is playful... yes, playfulness keeps life light. I like it that way and hope you do to.

Date a woman from Mill Valley, United States. How do you describe yourself without sounding a little too self involved? Okay, so here it goes... Funny. I am funny at least that is what I have been told. I love to laugh. The sexiest trait a person can have in my opinion is a quick wit and a random sense of humor. I feel attractive...most days (I have my moments to the contrary). I am deep; I think a lot and feel a lot...navel-gazing is an on-going past-time.
I am complex, multi-faceted, and generous (there is always another layer to be revealed...in a good way).
Adventurous! I like skydiving without a parachute (metaphorically speaking of course). I have travelled to over 30 countries and lived and worked in the greatest cities of the world.
I am a MILPHE (french spelling) and proud of it... I have an 8 year old boy (sports enthusiast...definitely ALL boy). He is the joy of my life.
I am a dancer, singer (in the past professionally) but most importantly I am very loving. I am looking for: A man who is Open-Minded. Very Handsome. Spiritual. Playful. Great sense of humor. Drama-phobic. Successful. Worldly. Creative. Compassionate. Sensual. Deep. Active. Judgement free. Joyful; Most Importantly... Must Love Children, etc. etc.
I am on a roll so, I think I'll just keep going.
You are romantic, always have been and continue to be even though life has thrown you some curve balls, love-wise. You are a positive person, always seeing the humor and bright side of every situation, even if it seems implausible to do so. You are handsome, but you don't realize it...it just sort of snuck up on you in college and to this day, you are bemused by the fact that you are insanely attractive, yet humbled by it. I have a thing for that sexy intellectual who was the dork in school but "grew into his nose". If you are hot and yet wear glasses, all the better.
You giggle or crack yourself up by the perceived absurdness of life. You know how to dress unless you truly don't care and with an, again, bemused look on your face...let your woman pick out your clothes.
You understand that men and women are equal but different and truly appreciate those differences and how they complete one another. You are a gentleman in every sense of the word, knowing that by being so she will feel like a lady, cherished, feminine, and appreciated and you, in turn you will feel like a man...chilvalry is not dead and yields great rewards.
You crave intimacy, perhaps that which you experienced in college, lying there with your first love, discussing your dreams and the future, not being afraid to open up...realizing that there is nothing more attractive than a strong man who is vulnerable in the arms of a woman who truly gets him and he feels safe with.
You understand the complexities of being with a woman who has a child, knowing that supporting her being a great mom shows generosity and a true love of children.
I am waxing poetic about you but I know you are out there..lastly, I leave you with this:
I'm great and your great but we're not hung up about it and together we will be great in the world...

Meet someone special from Mill Valley, United States. I'm finding through discussion with men that I'm unique in that I actually say what I mean. I don't manipulate men because I respect them too much (I had a great relationship with my Father). I also value men and therefore I make them feel valuable. I can be a bit guarded when we first meet but if you relax - so will I. I really enjoy my life and look forward to spending time with a man of similar interests which should not be hard since I mostly enjoy laughter. I also enjoy cultural events: museums, opera, ballet, live jazz. I also enjoy horseback riding, traveling, and skiing. I'm not a big fan of online dating but I promised my best friend I'd give it a try. This means that if we connect, I'd like to speak with you on the phone versus spending weeks messaging/texting. If this works for you - then we already have something in common. Let's see what else is there...
You should also know that I have an identical twin sister in SF....I'm not kidding.

Date a soulmate from Mill Valley, United States. I have a large sense of humor and really need someone who is mature and responsible but can also laugh without reservation.
Interested in a professional with stable career and retirement plan but also willing to go on vacations without a set schedule of events.
I don't a pic as described in the requirements but have been told in past I look kinda like Drew Barrymore. I think it's just the red hair. That's close. Otherwise she's definitely hotter.

Meet people from California, United States. I have good friends, a loving family, and a great place to live. I’m interested in more things than I could ever do and am always up for trying something new. I appreciate the “small” stuff. I’m good at being on my own and doing things for myself, but also like the idea of having a partner to do things with. I've loved before, but having my son has taught me a new level of love (among many other things).
Chemistry is very important but I'm also looking for a partner that's a great friend (cliche I know, but true). I probably wouldn't mesh too well with someone who is too conservative or closed minded. I really appreciate people who are flexible and willing to try new things. It would be great if you already know the importance of good communication, in a relationship, and give good hugs. Definitely looking for someone who likes children.

Date men and women from California, United States. I am a happy, optimistic person who enjoys life. I am very close with my family and I have wonderful friends. My parents are a big part of my life. My father's family is from Spain and I was raised with Spanish-culture values. Which, have a very strong emphasis on family. I love what I do for a living and I feel grateful for that. I am most passionate about family, friends, running, animals, certain causes (volunteering), the ocean and cooking. I love to take day trips and I feel like if you are in good company, just about anything can be fun. I enjoy going out, but I also love to be at home. My parents live in San Diego and we visit each other often. Lately, my dad and I have been having fun trying different Spanish Sherrys. I love creating a loving home that people want to be in. I am hoping to find a good man; someone who has a good heart. Someone who is warm, ambitious, loyal and kind. Good sense of humor is a must! Who doesn't love to laugh? :)