Date men from United States / California / Pleasant Hill, 39 year old

Date single man from Pleasant Hill, United States. I like sticking my hand out the car window and surfing the wind, not a big fan of long walks on the beach, I'd rather jump in the water and go swimming with you, life is about finding what makes you happy, good beer is a must and good wine only deserves the right time to drink it, all baseball should be played on grass and outside, I like to ride my bike faster than I should, I know how to swing a hammer, deglaze a saute pan, and yet I can sport a princess band-aid like no other! My favorite conversations consist of wit, sarcastic, dry humor-ism. And yes, I think I just made a word up.
I am in search of good humor, the ability to enjoy the moment and live to be happy. And oh yea, someone who doesn't mind arm wrestling to solve a friendly debate or the bill. I have no expectations and I'm not looking for a mother to my girls, but they must like you if it made it that far. They are a huge part of my life, but I have a good balance for myself.
I guess im looking for someone to get caught in the rain with, cook eggs benedict for, someone who loves to make out, someone to keep me on my toes and someones smile that gives me the butterflies!

Meet someone special from Pleasant Hill, United States. I'm a man who's comfortable in his own skin. What I mean by that is that I can accept myself for my good points and my less than perfect points.
I've lived in many different places, had the chance to have some incredible work opportunities, and enjoyed many great personal experiences in life that have made me who I am. I'm lucky.
I'm also a single dad with two kids that are a big part of my existence. I think that having kids gives me a great opportunity to "parent" myself.
I don’t know how it all works, though, but it somehow comes together. I get a lot of satisfaction out of it. For instance, I have almost figured out how to brush my daughter’s hair without getting her to emit blood-curdling screams as I brush out the knots. We’re getting there. Soon I’ll be able to apply for work in a hair salon ;-)
My kids are not with me all the time. So then I get to do a few things for "me".
The thing I like best is surfing. Surfing is the one thing in this world that's perfect for me. Because when I'm doing it my mind is clear. The act itself is perfection.
I enjoy gardening as well. It's my favorite thing to do in the warm months as I can live in the present with the act of gardening as I engage on acts of creating and growing. It's very spiritual.
I think we all have things that work for us this way. Tell me yours??!!
What I do for a living is technology sales. It's fun and I'm good at it.
Overall, to me, less is more. I know what it is like to have a complicated life. I’ve lived it, and it’s just not for me. II kind of think that everything does 'happen for a reason.' I think it's critical to accept that whatever is happening IS happening, and learn how to cope, how to adjust to it. What I know for sure is that every time I react to a situation in this manner, my happiness is maximized. I'd like to hear your thoughts on acceptance! Maybe we could have coffee and chat a little.
I’m not in any kind of hurry. I’d rather take the time to get to know you properly. I’m enjoying my life as it is right now. That is as simply put as I can say it.
If you like this idea, and I have captivated some of your interest, drop me a note! I look forward to hearing from you.