Date men from United States / California / Pomona, 39 year old

Date single man from California, United States. Some things: I love life, will never disrespect you, will listen, and am not judgmental at all. I have seven years military experience. Also, I would like for the women I date to have BIG MUSCULAR CALVES. Please let me know if yours are. I get frustrated not knowing.
About me: I Have a good, stable, great paying job, and pretty much no responsibilities, besides that. I have plenty of time for you, and I will not play games while we get to know each other or in our future relationship. I promise to make you laugh all the time.
I want us to both non judementally, emerse into the thoughts, feelings, experiences, and bad sides of each other enough to make a connection that minipulates our mental nero pathways to leave us crazy.
Hobbies: I go to 24 hour fitness almost every day after work to play basketball, and work out. I have a small frame but am also extremely cut. I think it is very important to take care of myself because my body is what is gona get me thru life.
Goals: I have a goal list that is just extensive and crazy. I am for sure going places.
You should know: If you want to get to know me you must be willing to make yourself vulnerable, and really reach out to get to know each other. I don't mind emailing, texting or chating on the phone, but let’s meet ASAP . That way we use our time wisely.
I heard on the news a couple of days ago that almost all conflict occurs because someone thinks they are better than the other. This hit me hard and I think it's true. I think it is important to treat everyone you come into contact with as if they were your boss. What do you think?
Thanx for considering me.