Date men from United States / California / Castro Valley, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from Castro Valley, United States. I am independent and mature guy with many interests and goals. I don't take myself too seriously and I am very comfortable with who I am. I am a self-improvement freak who’s always looking for ways to become a better well rounded man. Lately I have taken an interest in reading books on social communication, relationships, and health. I love to stay active. It’s important for me to stay strong and healthy because being fit is a huge part of my life. I am also a father of a cute 4 year old son who I try to see him as much as I can. I try to be great father whom he can look up too. When football season rolls around watching the 49er’s is appointment viewing for me. I try to make to every home game but if not I will be definitely watching the game somewhere. If you’re into football (yes even you Raider fan or any other team) then l might be interested in you. With that said I do not watch too much TV other than CNBC and the occasional Giants baseball game. I prefer to read, listen to music or do some work around my house.
My life is currently going well just by myself, however it can be more fantastic if I can find that rare mentally mature, independent women who has a great outlook on life. I am looking for a woman who loves children or at the very least understands the dynamics of being a parent. I am interested woman who love being active outdoors as opposed to doing laps around a mall. Don’t get me wrong I love to shop as well but that can’t be your main physical activity. I am looking for that rare women who has time to travel, loves to try new cuisines or can bake a mean red velvet cupcake (my favorite). I am looking for a woman is not on the serial dating tour but who is ready to be in a serious relationship. If you are still hitting the clubs or need to get lubed up with drinks in order to have a good time then you are definitely not for me.