Date men from United States / California / Lemoore, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Describe myself? That's harder than it sounds, guess I never thought about nyself in those terms. Recently divorced after 10 years of marriage. No drama, we had a good run but in the end we just grew apart. No harm, no foul. I do have step children that are the love of my life though. They make my heart smile. Biological or not, I'm dad and that's that.
My friends would say I'm smart and have a knack for laughing at the absurdities in life without taking it too seriously. I'm loyal to a fault but that's not such a bad thing, is it?
My perfect match? Hmmm...intelligent, independent, with a good sense of humor. I don't mean to sound snobbish, but if you think literature begins and ends with "Twilight" or that "Jersey Shore" is must see tv, then we probably don't have a lot in common.
I'm open to new experiences, I want to see what the world has to offer. Laugh and enjoy life.
I enjoy sports (go Cubs), good books, a good conversation. I can have a good time cooking dinner and watching a movie, heading out for a night on the town or getting away for the weekend.
It appears that everybody on here likes wine tasting. I prefer a Sam Adams but am willing to broaden my horizons.
Am I looking for something serious? I have no idea. If it's right, it's right. At the very least I hope to make some new friends and make some memories.