Date men from United States / California / Brea, 39 year old

Date a man from Brea, United States. Ok, well here it goes... First and formost I am only on here because I like the idea of prescreening who I am looking for. If my profile seems intimidating than I probably am not for you. I am far more easy going and fun than the direction I have taken on my profile. I have used the analogy that this process is like pulling weeds. Every week the process starts over and it is very simular to keeping a garden. Occationally you find an exotic variety that you wish to cultivate, all the rest goes to yard waist. My physical appearence and stature is far from my tenure and usually suprise people when they discover my age. If you ask why I am single, it is because I am not willing to settle. Opportunity for marriage is not a factor in my current position in life. I am a very capable individual that is above and beyond handy. I was raised with old fashion values and learned the importance of chivalry. I not only look for the best in people but also work at being my personal best. I believe in living a purposeful life and not just falling into being complacent. One of the things that keeps me driven. I look for opportunities to make a positive impact on people I come in contact with. I try not to take anything for granted. A high standard of love and respect was set before me and is something I strive to uphold. My grandparents where married 73 years. They held hands and showed affection to each other till they passed in their nineties. Something I personally strive for in my own relationship. Unfortunately my parents didn't have that success, so having that has far more significance in my own life.
I'm looking for that special women who makes me better than what I was before they came into my live. Finding a life partner who complements me, and I her. That's what's important to me. I am personally looking for someone who is established in her own life and is looking for the same qualities in her partner. Two should be better than one, and building a better life for each other should be a common goal. I’ve come to the understanding that the differences between the sexes are as crucially important as understanding how to work with different personality types, all while staying compassionate about the other’s feelings. Without personal respect, trust, and honesty, nothing will last. I am a good hearted person, who is always concerned with the well being of the people in my life. Chemistry, compatible personalities, personal stability, selflessness, and all the other variables that can be just as important as being in love.
Hi, before getting started I'd thank you for clicking on my profile. I realize this process is an investment of your time and is a nessesary evil in the goal of finding the right partner. To save us both any unnecessary unpleasures, I have organized a list of things I find important in myself and in anyone I might consider.
Christian Values
Honesty
Integrity
Reliable
Affectionate
Confident
Selfless, giving, and thoughtful
Good sense of humor
Considerate and understanding
Not having a sense of entitlement
Healthy lifesyle
Living within ones means
Outgoing personality
Family values
Attractive
Driven
Self Sefficient
Wants children (at least one)
Good communication skills
Mostly dept free / established
High expectations
Stylish
I'm looking for someone who will be a partner on all levels. It's vital to share mutual respect for each other. I feel affection, admiration, selflessness, honesty, and loyalty all build the chemistry that defies infatuation. Often there seems to be one or more attributes missing from the equations of relationships. Having common beliefs and goals will be beneficial in keeping a lifetime commitment; something I am whole-heartedly dedicated to.
I've lived my life looking out for the well being of others. I have always strived to positively impact those people around me.