Date men from United States / California / San Juan Capistrano, 39 year old

Date someone special from San Juan Capistrano, United States. To some I seem shy or aloof, others see me as outgoing and charismatic. I'm an adventurist like my father and I think spending time with him has somewhat turned me into an old soul. I don't think that's a bad thing. I have been very fortunate in many ways and have lived my life taking big risks and learning from my mistakes. I've lived on three different continents and found life to be much more interesting beyond the US border. Not only because of the history and culture of other countries but because it seems people from outside SoCal know how to live. They work to live not live to work. They better understand the importance of placing importance in relationships instead of material things. Don't get me wrong, I like the finer things as much as the next guy, but I think I have learned to keep things in perspective and I know where true value comes in life. Cars, money, houses, and trophy women haven't brought me the happiness true friendship has. I'm definitely not a serial dater and would love to meet someone who's more than just beautiful on the outside. I have often been told, "to know me is to love me." I guess I'm here so you can find out for yourself. . .