Date men from United States / California / La Costa, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. Hey! Thanks for stopping by, and I hope you enjoy your stay.
Originally from Massachusetts, I moved to SD 5 years ago, and then moved to North County a year ago for work; while I've somewhat toned down my Nor'East tendencies I do still have them (and some of my Bahston accent). My humor is generally sarcastic, sardonic, dry, witty, punny, goofy, and plentiful; so much so that my nickname at work is "Peanut Gallery" because I pretty much always have something to add to any conversation. I'm always honest and prefer the same in all my relationships; life's too short for BS to run the show. While I generally prefer casual to dressy, I've been told that I do clean up well. I'm very creative, but not in conventional ways (a friend just read this and reminded me that I'm not very conventional in a lot of ways lol). I tend more toward quiet confidence instead of brash cockiness or arrogance, I'm generally a little reserved in new company, and I think both in and out of the box. I can be very analytical and oriented to problem-solving but I also know when to shut up and listen.
Who I'm looking for? I'm looking for that click, the chemistry, the connection, the person who somehow finds her way to always being on my mind. I lean towards liberal, free-thinking, creative women. Organized or messy, planning freak or fly by the seat of your pants, minor traits are not all that important for me; to me what's important is having a partner, someone who meshes well and complements me.