Date men from United States / California / San Pedro, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from San Pedro, United States. So this is where I’m supposed to tell you how awesome I am without sounding like I’m pompous. So here it goes, I’m awesome but I’m not pompous. Both of my parents were born and raised in Mississippi, so I have southern values. I believe a man should open doors, hold your chair, and say sir and ma’am.
I love my job, but it doesn’t define me. If you think you know me because of my work, you’re completely wrong. I work in a rough part of town because I can do the most good there.
I love the ocean, not just looking at it, but also being in and around it. I am an avid diver, I love spear fishing, lying in the sun, tossing a ball on the beach, and I am learning to surf again. Heck, I even picked my condo because I can sit on my couch and watch boats come and go all day.
My favorite thing to do is load up the boat and head to a little spot in Catalina called Button Shell Cove. The water is beautiful, the diving is awesome, and the beach is the best.
I am the father of 3 incredible kids. They are extremely important to me and live with me 3-days a week. Please let me be clear that I am not looking for a new mother for the kids, they have a mom and she is a pretty good one. It would be a long time before I introduce them to anyone.
I’m not on Match because I can’t meet anyone in the real world and I’m not here to “hook up”. I am here to meet someone I would not have met I’m my circle of friends, someone who will show me something new. Being a diver or being willing to learn a plus, but not mandatory. You can enjoy the sun while I catch you a lobster for lunch.
I may be into the hunter-gatherer thing, but I am also skilled in the use of a fork and napkin. I can easily convince your friends and family that I’m not a caveman.
I am looking for someone who loves the outdoors, is active, loves the ocean and boats, and would be happy tanning and swimming while anchored in a tiny little cove in Catalina. Someone who is independent yet dedicated and devoted. Speaks her mind and stands up for what she believes in. Teach me something new and I’ll teach you something new.
Oh, and please don’t ask me to go with you to hot yoga. I saw a thing on the news about that. There was a questionable Asian guy wearing what appeared to be a pair of girls boy shorts that may or may not have belonged to his little sister. He was doing some sort of back bend thing that first of all should not have been possible, but he was doing it, and his pride and joy was kinda...... Well let's just say he was pointing left. Dude was sweating like an Italian after a good meal too. And that was the instructor! So getting me to go to one of those classes would be like trying to put a cat in a toilet. Not that I've done that, but imagine the visual...... It wouldn't be easy pushing me through the door while I'm holding onto the doorframe with both hands and feet. I'll stick to weights and bikes and meet you after for a swim or something.