Date men from United States / California / La Mesa, 41 year old

Date single man from United States. I try to find the good in any situation and live each day to the fullest. I set goals in hopes of making the world a better place. I'm looking for someone who lives life to the utmost and has a great sense of humor. I am also looking to meet friends or a special someone who knows who they are and where they're going in life. I have full custody of a great 14-year old kid who spends part of the summer and vacations in Texas. He is not only my son, but my bud.
I am a spiritual person who can listen and have a deep conversation but who refuses to trudge through life. I believe in God and eternity and still believe life is too short for negativity and drama.
Love of sports is a bonus, not a necesity. I WOULD like someone to head to baseball games with me and sit and watch some English soccer every now and again. I rarely have time for tv but I love Anthony Bourdain's No Reservations and other food shows when I can.
I work with teens and their families in San Diego and love, love, LOVE my job! I also am a novel writer who was recently published in January of this year. I am regularly asked to be a public speaker and often lead discussions and groups on human spirituality.
I am happy where I am at, would love to travel more and am open for the right person to enter the picture. I'm also open to friendships and getting to know people from a variety of backgrounds.

Meet someone special from United States. 5ft10 brown hair green eyes Mexican and white have one daughter but i am not interested in having aymore kids
just want to have a good time and some laughs lie to drink smoke daily like old rock like playing pool
hang out in bars like to eat love a nice steak dinner always good