Date men from United States / California / Placerville, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from Placerville, United States. II am a big guy... I am totally cool with being a large man. I smoke and don't have any current interest in quitting ... nobody likes a quiter anyway !
I am recently seperated. Not sure what I am looking for , but would really like to meet some new people. I am involved in my kids lives, supporting them in the things they do . I enjoy volunteering in my community through organizations for children. I am a strong supporter of the arts in school and youth sports.
I play softball as much as my schedule allows.
My 16 year old daughter plays rugby and I spend as much time at her matches as I can.
I am an admitted workaholic. I used to be pretty fun once upon a time, and I would like to get back to being that guy. I have a pretty good sense of humor , but it is a little rusty from lack of use lately.