Date men from United States / California / Castro Valley, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Hello, and thanks for checking out my profile. I am a confident and successful individual, established in and content with my life, but also interested in meeting new people. I live in the East Bay and work on the Peninsula (Palo Alto)
I think (and hope) that if asked, my friends and family would say am extremely honest, dependable, responsible and probably the most patient person you have ever met. I'm a hard worker but believe strongly in a great work-life balance - I rarely work weekends, and I enjoy taking vacations!
I have two wonderful, well behaved and smart kids who are adorable and are the center of my life.
I am very active and athletic and enjoy skiing, soccer, volleyball, going to the beach, playing pool etc. I'm especially avid about soccer and skiing. I have a ski-in/ski-out house in the Sierras that is a blast in Winter and Summer.
I'm college educated in a scientific degree and have been very successful in my career here in the Bay Area.
I enjoy good food, dining out and I enjoy wine, and making wine.
Hoping to meet someone with a good sense of humor (sarcasm preferred!), who is confident and emotionally secure, considers herself to be successful and fun to be around.

Meet single man from California, United States. In many ways, I have a great life. I own my home, have a great job, 2 wonderful boys (ages 19 and 13), a small group of close friends that would be there for me in a pinch, and I belong to several Meetup groups that gets together for many fun activities. The only thing missing is the right woman to share life with.
I would say that I’m a good cook and I would love to have someone to cook for. It would also be great to have meals cooked for me. Like most men, I love to barbecue, especially on a warm summer afternoon. I’ve put a lot of work into my backyard and I try to enjoy it as much as possible. My 13 year old son also loves to cook and I’m fortunate that sometimes he cooks for me – yes, he’s a great kid – but he’s only with me 50% of the time and he’s not going to live with me forever.
More about my boys… My boys are a very important part of my life. They’re 19 and 13. My 19 year old now lives with his mother full time but I try to get him out to the movies or dinner a couple of times a month. I would love to see him more often but he’s at the age where he does his own thing. My 13 year old spends every other week with me. My youngest still enjoys hanging out with me but he is starting to spend more time with his friends. I’ve recently realized that I wouldn’t be opposed to having another child. Now that I have one grown son and another one growing up faster than I want him to, I think I’ve finally gotten the hang of fatherhood. I will admit, though, that I would love to skip right over the bottles and diapers years.
Anyway, enough about me. Tell me a little bit about you…