Date men from United States / California / Solana Beach, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Hey fellow match mates...please bare with me for about a week as I move myself, my stuff and my kid from the South OC, back to Solana Beach. I will not be replying during this time. Thanks for understanding....
Atthough most of the people that know me would never agree, I am kind of shy...well at least to the point that I am not really comfortable approaching women with the goal of striking up that perfect conversation (read:pick up line) to get them interested in getting to know me better. The game is what it is, but there's got to be a better way so here I am posting this profile. I also am very busy with the occasional work trip, raising my son full time and trying to have a social life the rest of my free time. Exactly when this free time is is yet to be determined.
I am pretty open to most activities and enjoy variety. I can be happy staying at home and sipping some red wine with you while watching a movie, hanging out with friends, or getting a group motivated to take a trip to Cabo or elsewhere. I like to have fun but definitely have it all together from a responsibility standpoint, well mostly together.
As far as looks go, I'm about 5' 10" and weigh about 170. People rarely think I look my age with current estimates in the upper 30 range, I'm actually 46. I'm a match age fibber, call it superficial, but I have to be attracted to my girl and I still feel very young at heart. Not everyone can age gracefully, and I'm starting to wonder if that includes me, HAHA,
I am looking for that special person that can rock my world, but I'm happy to find a few good friends on here along the way. I am hoping to meet someone/people to do fun things with. I like a lady that has some input as to what she wants to do, but no spoiled princesses need apply. I want to end up doing activities that we both enjoy. I like to make suggestions too, but I think it's good to have dual input.
Ideally you take good care of yourself, but are as comfortable going out in jeans as you are in your sexiest outfit...life's to short to worry so much about what other people think that you take hours to get ready. Come on, let's go!

Meet a man from California, United States. My ideal match would also be a stong believer in Jesus Christ and share my traditional Christian values. When I'm not at church, I find myself surfing, which I find to be a transcendental experience.