Date men from United States / California / Arcadia, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Just seeing who in this world is single. getting ready to jump back into the single world. I do believe in physical attraction before inner attraction. In my opinion, physical attraction brings people together, inner attraction is what keeps them together.
About me: I'm an American Filipino born and raised in beautiful Los Angeles. I'm Independent, a gentleman, hard working, funny sometimes. I consider myself as a person that does the little things that doesn't get noticed. I'm more of a listener that a talker. Looking for: someone who is also independent and has a mind of their own. I'm not looking for someone to take care of, i'm looking for someone to be part of.

Meet single man from California, United States. I'm looking for a woman who is spiritually committed, but not "religious "in a legalistic or judgemental way. One who into real conversation, and likes to laugh .I"m really into women who are kind and easy going ,confident but not egotistical .I know that most people are looking for these qualities . So, having said all that I think having all the same interests isn't necessary for a successful match just as long as the person is open to new things. I'm really into having fun!!! Even different personalities can get along, there is no formula to why some people fit and others don't. It's one of the great mysteries. I think this chemistry thing is very important , I can write down a list of what I'm looking for and she may meet those things on paper, but if there is no chemistry it just won't work, I know a lot of women like sarcasm as a sense of humor, well I think it's overrated? If your "date" (or whatever you call it) mostly consists of sarcastic remarks and jokes, what have you accomplished? I don't mind sarcasm as a way to break the ice, sometimes it's necessary. But to be constantly on that level,( fake laughter included), is meaningless to me. It's like that person has something to hide. It never goes any deeper and you walk away not knowing that person any better. I believe in REAL attraction . In REALLY laughing about something and REALLY talking about things. I also like women who flirt, but if that is used only to get attention and to manipulate, then it is off putting to me. In other words, I'm really attracted to women who are real. ( I'll get off my soap box!)! Well, here are some of the things I like to do : playing music (playing a fun gig) gives me a sense of accomplishment when I play something to the best of my ability, even jamming with friends,watching sports ie. auto racing, and going to the gym. I'm currently teaching music summer school class in the mornings and my private students in the afternoon. i will be working on my masters degree in jazz studies in September. I could describe myself as easy going, fun to be around (it's a bit weird talking about myself like this!) I have a sense of curiosity about people and the world around me.I also like to make people laugh! I like to play sports and stay in shape by just being active.traveling and exploring are also things that make me happy. In my spare time I help lead a small group for my church. . I've lived in Pasadena for about 3 years now, before I came from Arizona where I completed my undergraduate degree. these past 3 years I've enjoyed living in Southern California, there is a lot to do here. Having a sense of wonder and learning new things(a new instrument, a language)etc.and investing in other's lives are things that make life interesting and meaningful to me.

Date someone special from California, United States. Open-mindedness and integrity are some of the more solid traits my friends have said but I always love the wild, crazy, goofy, and perhaps obscure things people I've met that spark my interest. I am very curious about life and people so, perhaps I can get into too deep but I always tend to find a way to make it better for myself and others. Unselfishness for others is very attractive as an ambition, yet so rare to find in people. On the other hand, I love to make people laugh and enjoy a person's face changing from a sad complexion to beautiful smile. So, I aim to find someone of similar thoughts and hope to make someone happy as well.