Date men from United States / California / Santa Maria, 41 year old

Date a man from Santa Maria, United States. Seems you have to write a perfect story about yourself, or sell yourself...This would be hard for me for I don't believe in tricking someone to like me. I want to like and be liked for what is in front of you; at the same time how are you going to get to know me or say hey this guy is different than the others so we can even get to the way it should be; meet in person to see if we click or not.
I read other profiles and everyone says the same thing more less painting a perfect picture; were human so their is no perfection but another person who can handle or understand the in-perfection.
Look I am here like you in hopes to find that right connection, I also know the past is the past and now is now. I know it isn't a perfect world because of my faith in God, and I have kids I only see 2 times a year because of my military duty and decisions and consequences I had to learn lessons from.
I come up with fun ideas, and I like doing things for people and especially who I am interested in. I am a one woman type of guy, I really try to understand the person I am with and there is no way I can give all of me to more than one plus it takes away what a relationship can be. I am willing to be the best man I can as long as you are not the type to kick me when I am down.
Are you the woman who can love me in time, based from a good friendship from care, concern, understanding, support, and really care about my well being and appreciate a good laugh and able to give in or meet in the middle of things that seem different to you or not of a way your use too? I am willing but I know it takes two to do so.
So how about a start, something simple to test the waters by meeting for the first time at a coffee shop and a walk on the beach, park, or just sit and talk; see if we want to pursue a second time to see each other. Let's just see, we have nothing now what is there to lose...nothing...But what if something unexpected comes from it?
Looking forward to your response or comments; Have a good day or night.

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