Date men from United States / California / Bakersfield, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. A little about me: No kids and have never been married (engaged once but it didn't work out). 5'10", 160lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes. My interests include: traveling, music (love going to concerts), pets (dogs only, not a big fan of cats), and sports (more the lazy sports (golf, bowling, etc) since I've advanced a little in age. My ideal night is not going out drinking which leads to wasting the entire following day with a hangover. I'd rather stay in, order take out, and watch a movie while relaxing with a nice young lady.
I would say I have a strange/witty sense of humor and like women who have the same. Brains and a great sense of humor attract me more than looks and a negative personality. Nothing bugs me more than that "half glass empty" person.
I'm the total opposite of the Bakersfield man: no big truck, no tattoos everyone, no flat bill hat, no going to bars just to fight, etc. I honestly think I was born in the wrong city. I've had a couple chances to leave (via work or school) but family has kept me here.
I'm just looking for someone to chat with at first, than possibly meet and hangout. Any takers?

Meet a man from California, United States. I am a faithful, honest & caring person who is looking for pretty much the same in a women. I have lived my life working hard, going to school so that I could better myself. My core values are conservative but I also like to "let my hair down" and have fun too. I'm looking for that special someone that I can't stop thinking about all day long. It has been many, many, many years since that has been the case. I'm not even sure it's possible anymore. Let me know if you may be the one.

Date single man from California, United States. My name is Jeff H. I'm a young 41. I'm not yet a member Ladies please have an updated photo not the one from 2006 where your hair was perfect....lol. And I don't really care about photos from where you have been. I wanna see an up to date photo of you... Preferably a full body shot.... I know what I like and I know what I deserve and I will not settle for less. If you have no career, education, car, or a place of your own please just pass me by. Im not shallow or conceited I just dont beleive in wasting anyones time or adding heartache to a situation. I have worked to long and hard and sacrificed to much for what I have (material, spritual, family, career)
Im not looking for a maid or a mother for my children. I'm looking for a companion. Nor am I looking to be someones money maker, bill payer, child raiser, or part time friend. I want a 50/50 relationship. If things work out and we become a family than that is different. I will do anything to support my family. I'm referring to paying your car payment, mortgage, credit cards, after the first month of dating. Don't get me wrong I love to spoil my lady with spa trips, nails, and pick up the hair bill from time to time but it's best if you don't ask. I will do more with out feeling pressured. A woman that I can share what Im interested in and she could do the same. I've got a huge heart and my family is my number one priority. If I consider you and your kids my family there isn't anything I wouldn't do. I hope we have different tastes so we could share them with each other and meet in the middle on a few.
An independant woman with her own life and goals.
This woman must love to KISS and now how. A kiss says alot about you. Im big on affection and love to cuddle and just touch and be touched. It dosent have to be in a sexual way. We can talk about the freaky stuff later...lol A hand on the back of my neck ...me rubbing your calves and feet why we lounge and watch a movie...
If you think you can meet this standard lets talk and see what happens.

Meet someone special from California, United States. Im not to good describing my self. I have a very good relashion ship with my friends and co-workers. I don't like problems or drama. I'm quiet some times and like to have fun when time calls for it. I think that once we get to know each other that's when you can really describe me. Like I said I'm not good at describing my self. I hope this bad description of my self does not disencourage you.

Date a soulmate from United States. Well let's see I'm about a year an half into the single life an ready to meet new friends :) , I enjoy the outdoors ,boating ,fishing ,camping ,bbq's , although quiet days at home are nice an relaxing too , I have three kids whom I love very much ,they keep me on my toes ! luv my weekends with them ,well not really sure what else to talk about except ,I work hard an play hard LOL ,... so let's talk !

Meet a man from United States. Well hello! Please forgive me if I make to many mistakes. Because this is all very new to me. I am 6`1 235 lbs. Very fit Jamaican man from Ochi. I have a God send little girl. Who is truly a hot mess! LOL! I love many tings. I'm very active in scuba diving and playing golf. I'm a very layed back person who strives to find his Queen who I can show mi home to one day. Family is a very strong force in mi life. I love to smile! But a good joke and a tender embrace goes a great distance with me. Well mi hope I helped some. And keep in mind,That if your day becomes Vexed. Step back and say to yourself? NO WORRIES! Easy it tis Mon!
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Date single man from United States. I am an easy going person when it comes to getting along with others. I am a type A personality when it comes to life. I want to meet a person who wants to share good times with and likes to be treated with respect.

Meet someone special from United States. Well I am a nice guy.. and I'm sure you have all heard that before.. But no B.S. here.. I like to stay on the go. I love the Beach and I try to get there as much as I can to Ride and Camp. I need someone who can keep up with me and really I am looking for a friend.. What ever comes after that is just a bonus. A quick spur of the moment ride to the beach on the Harley is Great..

Date a soulmate from Bakersfield, United States. hi my name is angel...im looking for that special person to be in my life to share all the "little" things...im not here to play games or waste your time....a sense of humor is definately a MUST...life is way to short to stress over bs....i have 3 wonderful kids who are the loves of my life...but dont trip i am single and there is NO baby mama drama here....so if u are that person who would like to laugh and cry with me....hit me up i wont bite...promise!

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Date single man from Bakersfield, United States. Well im not a brid lookin for someone with pretty feathers, not into being fake. I'm just lookin for someone that is apart of me already,...we just havent met yet and im hoping their somewhere close by, but if not thats alright too because something this important might require travel, lol.

Meet someone special from Bakersfield, United States. Looking for someone to spend time together with friends and family, travel, cuddle by the fire! Love to go to Vegas and Mexico. Enjoy camping, boating, fishing, riding dirt bikes, and sitting by the fire. I am looking for someone who is done with the games, ready to settle down and enjoy life. Want to continue to travel and see the world. I love my kids and would love your kids if you had any. I am a hard working father just looking for the one!!