Date men from United States / California / Newport Beach, 41 year old

Date single man from California, United States. Chemistry and compatibility...
Despite my uncontrollable compulsion towards sarcasm, deep down, I am a romantic person. But I am also a realist. If you don't find the right person, whom you share chemistry AND compatibility with (i.e., is there a spark between you, and would you want to hang out with this person even if there wasn't?), you won't be living happily ever after.
So it really comes down to what I call the "three L's", like, love, and lust. I've only had two of the three at once, which is why the search continues. How about you? How many have you had at one time?
So who am I? I'm a well-educated, fun-loving guy with a great hairline who wears 34w jeans (33w really, but who makes those?), which I'm told I fill out very nicely, thank you very much. I really am 6' exactly (measured by a friend last year for a bike fitting). I'm honest, loyal, and show my mate respect, so I expect this in return. I'm not a player. I am an awesome boyfriend. I much prefer having a girlfriend and turning all of my attentions to her, instead of this Match dating business. But as everyone on this site knows, it has to be the right person (the L's man, the L's).
I think the ideal match is one that adds value, a net gain, i.e., both people bring something the other doesn't have (except, of course, my shapely derriere*, you can bring that too), and *both* people are determined to make the other person happy. Not one giver and one taker. Two givers. Symbiosis.
I really do believe that if a relationship has those big ticket items (you know, L's), it doesn't matter if one person likes bungee jumping and the other is into macrame (I'm into neither, FYI). Of course, passion is essential. No Match algorithm can measure that. So, if you have common interests, but don't find yourself looking forward to the next time you get to rip his clothes off, maybe you've settled? There has to be that spark, and you can only find out face-to-face.
With that said, ideally, I am looking for an intelligent (seriously, this is a real turn-on for me, someone I can brag to friends and family about how smart she is), educated, fitness-oriented, active (not that I don't enjoy vegging out on the couch watching movies), motivated (for a successful life in all aspects), giving, passionate person who appreciates wildly politically incorrect humor and sarcasm. I appreciate a career woman, or one headed that way at least. Oh, and liking dogs would be very helpful.
* - My best feature, really. ;-)
Final thought: If you are a woman living in China - or a man living in Nigeria posing as a woman - I'm not interested, sorry. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I have a positive and easy going attitude, although I'm ambitious when it comes to business. I’m an artist at heart, but I have somehow evolved into an entrepreneur. I like the challenge of creating new businesses, but will always be drawn (pun intended) to design and creating art. Humor is an important part of my days…
I'm an easy person to meet and talk with. We will either be friends, lovers, or business associates (or all 3 :).
I’m looking for a woman who knows what she wants out of life. I’m not here to define what a woman should be, but I like someone who's easy going, smart, and likes to try new things... someone who likes to travel would be a big plus! It would also be nice to find someone with some old school family values… treating people right, good karma, etc. I had a more traditional upbringing and I open doors for women, and although I won't throw my jacket down over a puddle of mud for you... I may very well carry you over it.

Date someone special from California, United States. Hi. I'm a pretty easygoing, sociable, optimistic, driven, educated, down-to-earth, sharp (sometimes stupid), adventurous and fun guy who has passion for life, knowing when to be serious and when to be goofy. Midwest born & raised. My interests are wide ranging - rarely a dull moment. Always seeking the "new" in life, while finding comfort in the tried & true. Attractive to me is one who is adventurous, independent, creative, stylish, open minded, quirky & sassy who has a zest for life and is also open to the thought of meeting a close friend, confidant and partner for enjoying life's eclectic delights.

Meet a man from California, United States. Just checking this out...I am not sure if this is the best way to meet someone, but it seems to be the modern way and so many people are using it so I figured I would try it out...I am not into the bar or club scene so it is difficult to meet people outside of my social circle...

Date single man from Newport Beach, United States. I am a single father (teen/h.s.), laid back, a lover of music and looking to find someone interesting and down to earth.
I love cooking eating at little places and trying new things. Angel and Laker fan, but not a crazed sports fan. Love various styles of music ...I believe music is the soundtrack to our lives. Reggae, alternative, acoustic, jazz, blues, ethnic, etc etc ..a true lover of music.
I am open to different backrounds and cultures and hope to find someone that is interested in getting to know one another and have fun perhaps hanging out.... Perfection doesnt exist, and just fine by me.... Without imperfections in life along the way, we wouldn't have an opportunity to find out what really makes us who we are. Lifes' experiences may be tough but we grow and become better people..or strive to be.
I enjoy small hole in the wall places or can equally enjoy a night out on the town. I am bit of a foodie and enjoy finding those cool lil places that keep you coming back telling others about it to enjoy as well....I enjoy catching a live show in a small place or a major artist when they come to town. I do have a few tattoos but tasteful and still presentable and not seen @ the office.
I enjoy pondering on life and sharing the days' events from local happenings or globally. We are all different and feel its ok to not always agree, and that it is pefectly ok. I still respect a different point of view and may make me reconsider my own, or reinforce it... I do like time on my own from time to time for hanging out with a good friend, catching a show, or meeting for a meal...As well I'm good with a partner feeling the same.
I am not interested in keeping up with "the Joneses" and realize I do not need much to be happy, have warm friends, and create great memories. God has always blessed me with more than I need, so I really can not complain. I like nice things, but not the only thing in life to live for ...
Looking for someone who lives in reality but not afraid to dream.... Hoping to find someone to enjoy doing the casual things in life, to a night out exploring, or just cooking at home spending time or with friends....... Lived in the Philippines for a year and love the culture, food, and people..... What an amazing experience this was for me changed my life evermore.
I know life gets very busy, but hopefully a nice time to perhaps have some communication via email, phone, and get to know a little about one another ....

Meet a soulmate from Newport Beach, United States. I am on a mission to enjoy life to the fullest and learn as much about myself and the world around me and through this process become more aware and help those around me find their purpose on this planet,
Live, Love and Laugh A lot ,,,,,,,,,,,,

Date someone special from Newport Beach, United States. I'm a honest, supporting and down to earth young man that happens to be successful, confident, and outgoing. I do my best to maintain a very positive outlook and attitude on life even against the occasional curve ball that might be thrown...I really enjoy being spontaneous, packing up the bags and just going so we can enjoy the gift of traveling as well as trying new and exciting things. It would be a blessing to meet a confident, attractive and honest woman to enjoy all that life has to offer. Hopefully, you and I like to enjoy the same type of outdoor activities and social events because life is to short and we should live every day to the fullest... Cooking diner and spending down time to share our thoughts is a must as well as hitting a local hot spot from time to time to blow off some steam. Traveling, boating and wakeboarding, buying new clothes, snowboarding or skiing, people watching, laughing at myself with friends, romantic evenings, beach fires, sunshine, camping, kisses, great food, sunsets, hot tubs, BBQs, concerts, sarcasm, hard work-outs, mountain air, rainy days, fireplaces...
I strongly believe that attraction plays an important role in chemistry so I'm
Looking forward to meeting you…

Meet a man from Newport Beach, United States. The thing that makes this internet thing tough for me is writing about myself. I'm sure most people who try this get what I mean. Especially if you don't write for a living. Sure, I'm going to say I'm an outgoing, great guy who loves watching romantic movies, buying flowers etc. What guy wouldn't say that to get that really great, sexy girl with good morals he has been thinking he'd find for the last ten years. You get the picture. I'm not perfect but I try everyday to something to help other people. But I also like to live it up for myself a little at times. I'm attracted to interesting people. People that work hard. People who are a little unique. I'm attracted to a woman that is sexy without trying to hard. I'll bet you know what I mean. She really does have to have good morals. And be in shape. Should be easy right?

Date single man from United States. How I describe myself? I'm not too sure on that one. My friends call me the funniest serious guy they know. They can't figure out how I can be a complete professional person in work vs. out of work a joker. I lived in Newport Beach just over 3 years and moved to Irvine about 6 months ago. There are many things I have not done while I've been here and while time permits and hopefully finding someone to share in that adventure. I love listening to all kinds of music and seem to be that person that my friends call when they need trivia questions answered. I guess I have a wealth of useless knowledge and still finding many ways to use that. HAHA
My match: Someone who is adventurous, honest, witty, secure with who she is, what she wants, where she is heading in life, puts a smile on my face when I see her and she smiles when she sees me!!!! Someone who is athletic and isn't afraid to wear baseball hat getting coffee or going all out dressing for a nice dinner and night out.
If that reminds you of anyone you know? I would be interested in meeting YOU. :)

Meet a soulmate from United States. I am passionate caring and loving. I played volleyball in college. I have a house in kauai Princeville. I own a gaming company. I am very athletic surf, golf etc. I am very easy going and also sometimes wild. I am great with kids and animals. I treat people very well and a great listener. I was taught to open doors and bring flowers. Never been married and no kids. I live in Newport Beach, CA.

Date someone special from United States. Hi. I grew up in Newport Beach, lived in Texas, New York City and Los Angeles, then moved back to Newport. Staying in shape is important to me and I run, workout or play tennis almost everyday. I have a fairly good grasp of current events and politics, and a witty sense of humor...at least I like to think so :) I enjoy a quiet evening at home reading, talking, watching TV or listening to music, but if I don't go out a couple times a week I get claustrophobic. I enjoy cultural things such as classical music, museums and independent films, and don't watch a ton of sports on TV, but I am a big fan of the Texas Longhorns (undergrad) and a medium fan of UCLA (MBA). Most women say I'm kind, considerate and affectionate. I'm open-minded, eat all types of food, listen to a wide variety of music (but usually alternative rock, top 40 or classical), enjoy most types of movies (independent films, comedies, action, drama, but not horror) and will travel almost anywhere.
I'm looking for an intelligent and attractive woman...easygoing would be a plus. A little offbeat would be a good thing.

Meet a man from United States. I'm a fun-loving guy that likes to make people laugh. I'm generous and caring. My match would be a woman that has a sense of humor and isn't too serious all the time. Life is too short. We need to enjoy the ride.

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