Date men from United States / California / La Mesa, 30 year old

Date a man from La Mesa, United States. Born and raised in San Diego. I love to travel mostly anywhere with a beach. I have a great job, Contract Supervisor and Building Inspector, working for the DOD. I most definitely work for the weekend though. Enjoy almost anything outside. I'm usually surfing, skating, or golfing, but love trying new sports. Not a big club rat. I'm more of a dive or sports bar type of person, but I'm not against hitting PB or DT once in a while. I really like going out to live shows comedy, really any type of music ( not a big Country fan, but dont hate it ), even like to check out a play now and then. I'm looking for someone who is chill, outdoorsy, and fun to hang with. Pretty simple.

Meet single man from La Mesa, United States. 'm a down to earth and easy going guy just looking for someone that I can spend time with and enjoy whats out there. So if you are interested and don't mind that I have 2 kids then just send me an email :)

Date someone special from La Mesa, United States. Hey, I’m Robert. I decided to give this a shot cause it's really hard to find girls that are real and genuine at bars or clubs. And if you're on this site and reading this, it's probably because you feel the the same way about guys. So what am I looking for? I’m looking for someone who knows who she is and knows what she wants in life. I’m not interested in meeting the same old girls at bars and clubs that really have nothing meaningful to offer. I’m looking for someone I can have an intelligent and meaningful conversation with that goes beyond material things, the latest reality show, gossip, or whatever meaningless drama people like to make a big deal about.
As far as my personality goes, well, I'm pretty laid back, upfront to the point, love sarcasm, and appreciate someone that can make me think. I'm a loyal and sincere guy who always makes an effort to do the right thing while being respectful and curious to others. I was raised to be polite and well mannered and will always say please and thank you when dealing with people. I'm kind of old fashion in that I believe women should always be treated with respect and always protected. My passion is life and personal development. I enjoy having real conversations about things that actually matter. I can be a goofball at times. I can come off as being a bit shy at first but I'm definitely a very outgoing and confident person. I'm very goal oriented and make it my priority to accomplish all of them. I’m always up for a challenge and trying new things.
I love traveling and getting to know different people and cultures. I’ve been fortunate enough to travel to 15 different countries in the past few years and can’t wait to travel some more. I am not a native San Diegan, I moved here from the Seattle area two years ago after being in the Army for five years. Joining the military was by far the best decision I’ve ever made and it’s made me who I am today. Through everything I saw and experienced, it gave me the confidence and drive to appreciate and live life to its fullest.
When it comes to relationships, I'm not in a hurry to get into a serious one, but I am looking forward to meeting someone I can have a happy and meaningful relationship with. I'd just like the chance to meet someone and see where it goes from there.

Meet a soulmate from La Mesa, United States. i'm looking for a friend to enjoy life with, go to the beach and enjoy the sunset with, share laughters with, to explore, learn and be amazed with. that's good enough for now and if it goes beyond that, then there'll be two less lonely people in the world :) there ya go, that shows i'm an air supply fan. english is my second language and i've only been here in san diego for a couple of years and so far i'm lovin' this fine city. i try to go out as much as possible when i'm off work. there's still a lot of things here that i haven't done, places i haven't been and food i haven't tried. if you're into exploring new things then we might click being exploring/activity partners. come with me and let's be kids again :)

Date a man from California, United States. About me - Well, I'm a pretty open person who enjoys all that life has to offer. I like to say that I "plan for the worst and hope for the best" in life and all that comes along with it. I try to see the good in people and just enjoy exploring the world around me and to learn as much about it and myself as each moment can offer. I'll try almost anything at least twice. (Yes, twice so I can make sure that whatever is was isn't for me.) Laughter and learning are my key goals each day while finding and having reason to smile, even on the darkest of days. For even the darkest and gloomiest of clouds has a silver lining and a moment of growth to be attained.
I'm from the East Coast: meaning I was born in Atlanta and still travel back often to see family, grew up mostly just north of Boston on the North Shore in a city called Lynn, Ma and try to get back as often as I can, but spent parts of my summers and holidays out in Pittsburgh, Pa. I've also lived in Maryland, Virginia and Japan. I've traveled the globe and love to meet new and interesting peoples and see the world in new perspectives.
My match - Truly, for me someone similar or near similar would be a good match. Someone who can stick to a plan or plan to have no plan and just roll with what's presented as we go along. Someone who is focused and determined with goals and milestones they wish to achieve in life. A person independent of thought and capability but supportive and able to conjoin when needed. One motto I like is from a song is "I'm a movement by myself, but I'm a force when we're together... I'm good all by myself, but baby you, you make me better." I want someone who can maintain and live life on their own but enjoys the presence and augmentation of another soul in their life. I like people that have a realistic outlook on life; positive and optimistic but understanding that not everything will go as planned and will not stress out too much when it doesn't. Instead she goes back to the drawing board to re-work her plan to achieve success.
The rest is placed somewhere in my subconscious and just knows. So, let me know if and or how you fit into this or how I could possibly fit into your world.

Meet single man from California, United States. This whole online dating thing is kind of an interesting social experiment so I would like to take part. You never know how you will meet the one you're looking for. First, some things about me:
I'm a dork tough guy who's been blessed with an above average intelligence (but i'm not a wizard).
A good observer, who likes to analyze the world around me, looking at things from an outside perspective.
Real big into physical fitness, but not obsessed. You've got to take care of your body, especially as you get older.
I'm a bit of a introvert and don't believe that to be a negative thing. Not exactly a social butterfly. That's ok.
Not a big talker, more of a thinker, but I like to have deep conversations about anything and everything. Not gossip.
I'm a science fiction, fantasy, video game, movie, and tech stuff "nerd". Everybody should be.
I'm very musically inspired. I like rock primarily, listen to orchestra music, and anything else that displays talent.
I really don't like stress, it kills you. I try not to stress about non sense that's not important in the long run. Not always good at it.
I'm a bit stubborn and insensitive sometimes. It's called being real.
I have a sick sense of humor and a big fan of sarcasm. People are funny and stupid, I like to point out why.
I like to go against the grain and not follow "normal" social behavior. Don't like conforming to unwritten rules.
Have a weird, sometimes sadistic imagination, and it's pretty awesome.
I am a man with warriors blood in me. I will protect and/or take care of you when needed.
I'm not perfect, I've got issues, but I'm a good man.
I think some people on here just write what they think other people want to hear. A lot of people trying to be the Ying and the Yang.
To good to be true. It's like everyone is the same. Maybe I'm wrong.
I'm just looking for a woman that's willing to filter through all the smoke and mirrors people put up with everyday.
Be willing to argue and speak your mind. No silent treatment.
Don't be a defeatist. Take charge of your life and solve your problems.
Not looking for someone with self-esteem issues, but not over confident either. (Tall order, I know)
Don't lose sight of the big picture and get wrapped up in the daily grind.
I am going to make fun of you sometimes, don't take it personally, just laugh at yourself. I have good intentions, trust me.
Respect my opinion and I respect yours. Never argue for the sake of arguing.
Please accept the fact that I will do things as a man you don't understand, and I will accept that you will do crazy, weird, bizarre, inconceivable stuff as a woman.
Love it or leave it, don't try to change it. Goes both ways.
Logic, reason, and rationality should always trump instinctive emotional response.
I wrote some more, but then I hit submit and it all disappeared. Thanks match.com! ; )
Sorry for the somewhat negative tone, but if you agree with what I say, please hit me up.