Date men from United States / California / La Mesa, 25 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I've been called the Drifter. Also the Shape Shifter, the Master Chef, the Chameleon.
The Problem Child. The Hard One.
The White Indian. The Giant Midget.
If Elvis and Buddy Holly are the Cain and Abel of rock 'n' roll...and Bruce Springsteenis Zechariah...
...Iggy Pop is Methuselah...
...and, of course, Neil Young is the wise prophet Ezekiel...
...then what does that make me?
To be honest I'm not sure what to expect out of this site. I have no agenda and I don't have a check list on what to look for. I don't seem have a type, but I know what isn't my type. It would be nice to meet someone new for a change and who knows...one step at a time right :)
Lil about mE: I live for competition! I have a fitness/competitive edge that i keep dormant until the right time! Theres just something about competition and good ole fashion hard work that makes me feel so alive. For a living I work as an IT Analyst for GD and also i do a little promoting with an event company that my buddy started to keep things interesting. Theres more to tell but id perfer you ask plz.
As far as a first date goes, Im not the type of guy whos going to say, "Hey where do you wanna go?"... Ima take you somewhere nice where we can get to know each other....whether it be with a group of friends or just us grabin a bite!
FYI: Not a fan of girls who obtain a relationship for status! And you know exactly what i mean by that!
I've had an interesting past that has made me see the world a little differently than the average man! ...A Very interesting past!! Go ahead and ask me if you made it this far.
I was raised old fashioned by my wonderful mother. So if opening the door for you, and paying for dinner and being polite seems off to you, please stay in school till you learn!