Date men from United States / California / Monterey, 41 year old

Date a man from California, United States. I am looking for a woman to be my friend first and then perhaps we might fall in love over time. I like surfing and I really like Costa Rico a lot. I am having some trouble writing here but I am giving it a try. I am kind of shy around women but I would like to so much have a friend first.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I am hardworking and responsible, something of a workaholic, but I enjoy my work. Travel is a passion I pursue as often as possible and have seen about 25 countries and most of the US. Reading a good book is one of my favorite and frequent diversions, and I am also a news and current events junkie and prone to catch late night sitcoms. Just started dancing lessons to diversify my exercise routine - the gym gets boring after a while. I have no immediate family in the area, but I am still close to my 4 sisters and 2 brothers. I am the eldest - the one they all look up to and make up stories about what a bully I was when we were younger. Revisionists! I prize candor and respect in a relationship. What else would you like to know? Just ask......

Date someone special from California, United States. charming, care for friends, like to meet new people, respect people no matter what their religion or ethnicity, i love to travel and explore the world, like swimming, reading, and spending time with friends