Date men and women from United States / California / La Mesa, 41 year old

Date a man from La Mesa, United States. I try to find the good in any situation and live each day to the fullest. I set goals in hopes of making the world a better place. I'm looking for someone who lives life to the utmost and has a great sense of humor. I am also looking to meet friends or a special someone who knows who they are and where they're going in life. I have full custody of a great 14-year old kid who spends part of the summer and vacations in Texas. He is not only my son, but my bud.
I am a spiritual person who can listen and have a deep conversation but who refuses to trudge through life. I believe in God and eternity and still believe life is too short for negativity and drama.
Love of sports is a bonus, not a necesity. I WOULD like someone to head to baseball games with me and sit and watch some English soccer every now and again. I rarely have time for tv but I love Anthony Bourdain's No Reservations and other food shows when I can.
I work with teens and their families in San Diego and love, love, LOVE my job! I also am a novel writer who was recently published in January of this year. I am regularly asked to be a public speaker and often lead discussions and groups on human spirituality.
I am happy where I am at, would love to travel more and am open for the right person to enter the picture. I'm also open to friendships and getting to know people from a variety of backgrounds.

Meet single man from La Mesa, United States. 5ft10 brown hair green eyes Mexican and white have one daughter but i am not interested in having aymore kids
just want to have a good time and some laughs lie to drink smoke daily like old rock like playing pool
hang out in bars like to eat love a nice steak dinner always good

Date a soulmate from La Mesa, United States. About Me:
First and foremost, I love music--it has literally and metaphorically woven the tapestry of my life. My favorites include: Led Zeppelin, The Elected, Van Morrison, Joni Mitchell, The Black Keys, Real Estate, Rilo Kiley, Of Montreal, Neil Young, Dax Riggs, The White Stripes, The Kinks, Beastie Boys, Bowie, Portugal.The Man, The Doors, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros, John Lennon, Leftover Cuties, and the Stones. I love finding new music--whether it be on Grooveshark or Spotify, or just by reading Rolling Stone magazine. I am a huge Rob Sheffield and Chuck Klosterman fan--I love their take on pop culture and their keen analysis of music. I love live music, so I go to a lot of concerts and shows. The Belly Up is one of my favorite venues in SD, but the Troubadour in LA is my all-time favorite place to see a band.
I am the mother of the most wonderful 12 year-old twin boys on the planet. They are lovers of music as well. We have already seen Weezer, Blink-182, The Flaming Lips, The Killers, Morrissey and Norah Jones together. They've got a great foundation for lifelong listening!
So yeah...I host a lot of parties at my house and enjoy hanging out with my friends and family. I enjoy reading. I just finished reading Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs by Chuck Klosterman--genius! I also enjoyed Patti Smith's Just Kids. I love a good rock biography, and this one was particularly well-written. I also am making my way through Infinite Jest by David Foster Wallace, but I take time off to indulge in something lighter...
I am a teacher, so I have a lot of time off. It's definitely a perk! In addition to the aforementioned music obsession, I love reading, writing and seeing movies, although I can appreciate the magic of such classics as Friday, Swingers or The Hangover, Wes Anderson and Cameron Crowe are my favs. I love getting to know people on a deeper level, but I am very silly and sarcastic as well--inside jokes are wonderful...and witty repartee is something upon which I thrive.
Celebration is what I do...life is too short to not be celebrating every chance possible. I seek wonder and ambiance and the perfect soundtrack for good times.
I am looking for someone who is funny and confident.--someone who is comfortable in his own skin. A deep passion for music is a definite plus and an open mind and a great sense of humor are musts. Looking for my partner in adventure--someone who loves to have fun and sing along to the radio on our way to said adventure.

Meet someone special from La Mesa, United States. I'm the shy, quiet type, but I do have a mischievious side of me. I love a good laugh. I enjoy being around people who have a good sense of humor.
I'm looking for someone who shares similar interests with me.

Date men and women from La Mesa, United States. This is the part that i'm sure everyone has a hard time doing but here it goes. I am a bbw, if you don't like big women then keep moving. but if you are interested in me thanks for reading on.
I like to do different things, go out or stay home but always have a good time. I like to be treated well but it doesn't mean you have to spend lots of money on me, just a little = ). I'm not a gold digger, but would be nice if the man I would be in a relationship have a good job and well balanced life. I am also looking for a relationship that is 50/50, treat each other with respect, no yelling, no drama. I like to cook, but what is sexy to me is a man that knows how to cook well and also a good way of seeing how well we can work in the kitchen together.
My friends and family would describe me as sincere, honest, very caring, patient and quiet but once I get to know you I open up. I don't really have a TYPE of man but he has to be honest, caring, affectionate, good kisser (soft kisses that leaves me wanting more not only at the begining of the relationship but through the years. A man who loves his family, friends, has a sense of humor because I love to laugh, likes the outdoors as well as stayig in and relaxing and sorry guys but no smokers please, nothing against you but my preference.
If you think this is you send me a message and lets see if there is chemistry and go from there.