Date men from United States / California / Hayward, 41 year old

Date single man from Hayward, United States. just looking for someone who has the same ideals as me and can be themself. would like to find someone intereseted in fitness and who takes good care of themself. Hope to find a friend and see what happens from there.

Meet someone special from Hayward, United States. I am an active person and I am very passionate about my martial arts. I enjoy having fun and spending time with someone with similiar interests. I enjoy teaching and helping people improve themselves.

Date a soulmate from Hayward, United States. I’ve been through it, just like you. I’ve blown it before just like you. I’m looking for someone that’s human, just like me. Okay, enough of that. Me, I'm into looking ahead instead of behind. I love to laugh, have a wicked sense of humor and a penchant for inappropriate jokes. I'll even BE the joke for you (if I like you), just do me a favor and TELL me that toilet paper is stuck to my shoe after your done laughing ok? I’m a Taurus, so, whatever that means. Yeah I’m stubborn, but also very loyal. I like video games and board games- but not mind games. I can teach you to play chess if you like. I’m comfortable in sweats and my five-fingers, lucky jeans and a white long sleeve shirt or a suit. I know how to act like an adult and blend in really well, but, I jump at the chance to be a silly kid. I’m comfortable being me. I’m always open to suggestion and a better way to do things. I dig psychology, sociology and witty, sarcastic banter. I used to go out all the time and dance all night and party- and, I had a lot of fun too. But I’m over that at this point in my life. I still like to go out- It’s just some of my superpowers seem to have worn off… I like to people-watch and guess where they’re going and what they do. I love the outdoors; going camping, photography, river rafting. I like to shoot but I do not hunt animals, not down with that unless it is necessary to sustain life. I love animals. Anyone who doesn’t like little furry things wouldn’t fare well with me. My favorite was my Ferret. I miss her. I love travel, especially to other countries- it’s almost like being on a different planet when there’s a language barrier. I like fast car. I’ve been known to stand still in the rain. I like taking things apart but I like fixing things more. I like last minute spur-of-the-moment trips but I’m also a good planner. I have excellent command of the kings English but sometimes my brain-mouth filter doesn’t work. I can read people like a gypsy but sometimes I seem to be blind at the wrong time. I love to kiss, I love to cuddle, but I also love my own space. I’m pretty much a romantic that’s SO trying not to give up. Corny as it sounds; I’ve been through relationships and learned a great deal about the opposite sex and most importantly about myself. Now it’s time to put what I’ve learned to task- and do it the right way this time (fingers crossed).
Who am I looking for? Someone who has life experience. Who knows how things are in the real world but still likes to pretend. I would be beside myself if I could meet someone who can communicate. Not cause a train wreck and then say “oops, my bad”. Someone who is not afraid to ask for help. Someone who has the capacity to love and be loved, who is comfortable with themselves. Someone confident and capable but genuinely wants to be with another. Independence is good but so is togetherness. Someone who has a sense of how to choose their battles and is not afraid to fight them. Chemistry is a must- but you know this. If we click, GREAT. But it’s going to take that extra something to make it more than that. You know- that tingling feeling in your stomach? That gulp that you wonder if they heard? That uncontrollable urge to smile? I’ll be honest- eye contact says a thousand words, but, a kiss says a million more. A kiss that makes you lose your breath is worth its weight in gold. What I do not want is simple; someone who lacks honesty and integrity.
DISCLAIMER: If you do not have the capacity or time for a relationship please do not respond to or contact me. I'm not asking for one up-front, it has to get there on its own. But I'm not interested in serial dating or meeting anymore girls that "aren't sure what they want". For the love of Pete- you can't get what you want if you don't know what it is.

Meet a man from Hayward, United States. I'm a professional and fun loving person looking for my "match"... I am also a proud father of my beautiful daugther who is attending the University of Hawai'i-Manoa where I visit often!
About me and where my mind is... I served our country as a United States Marine and had a great experience touring the world. I’m grounded, raised as a gentleman and have a great attitude on life. My friends and family make my world and they have always been there for me as I am for them. I appreciate and wear well tailored suits for work and for fine dining but also love to ride my Harley and enjoy outdoor activities to enjoy our California weather.
My daily attitude... Folks close to me refer to me as “chief” and the joke is they hate me always smiling (-: But I have seen the good and bad things in life and I choose to reflect on the positive.
Why match… I go to lounges/bars but I’m not sure that is the place for me to meet a woman but I could be wrong. What I'd like to find on match is a confident woman who I have chemistry with, loves fine dining as well as the outdoors, comfortable in her ways and LOVES to laugh!
I'll keep it short since I believe the only way to really get to know someone is to meet her in person.
*Since I started my match adventure I realized I dont take a lot of pictures... especially ones just of me but I posted what I believe captures who I am... feedback appreciated - LoL! You gotta laugh at yourself first, right?

Date single man from United States. Ppl call me chongli! But my name is john. Lol. No actually dats both of my names, just da othr is how john lee wold b pronounced in chinese, I live in.hayward very intelligent n highly intellectual,dnt let the abbrrviations,and or the ebonics fool u. Im very old fashion in values ,god fearing,,vry respectful, in addition to vry good mannrs,im a person who always,keeps his place,and belongings,clean and organized,as well as my personal hygene, im not a prize winnr in da looks department, I do have.a few missing front teeth, as that was caused by a wrk accident, frm an mack truck watr pump shaft. Working on dat now, but my teeth are white and straight,and not a yukmouth,.ive been single for 13or more years. And im searchin for a soulmate dat wnt hurt me emotionally mentally,and hopefully not physically,lol. Im way too ez going, half da reason im walkd ovr alot. Im very intense and charismatic, to da point that I do disinterest people alot cuz they dnt wanna have to b on a level to where it might have to make them think or use there intellect. I think ive described enuff, however theres a whole lot more to me left to knw ,but I promise it wnt b to mind boggling. Also if u havnt already noticed,i posses a huge sense of comical humor . I hope what ive mentioned,will at least b interesting to that one lady who could be that begginning of the rest of my life tillthe end of my life. Trul,john lee

Meet someone special from United States. Hmm where to start....I'm a giving, thoughtful, funny, sarcastic, creative, romantic, driven, ambitious, direct, and focused person. I'm very serious about work and my business, but I'm equally serious about having fun and enjoying life in my off time. I like to travel, go out on the town, try new restaurants, drink wine, and spend time with friends. I like spending time outdoors. Camping with family and friends. Like to spend my vacations somewhere tropical and romantic. I'm looking for someone to find adventure,love,trust and respect. Must like kids , i have two beautiful daughters and a very handsome son. A woman that is not afraid to express their dreams, thoughts and ambitions. Not interested in materialistic people! I'm not a sugar daddy, and if you're looking for that move on! I like someone I can go to the ball park one day and the next go to a museum or opera.I want to find someone that enjoys life and knows who they are and won't let anyone change them. Someone who wants to be taken care of but is not dependent. Someone I can call mine and they call me theirs. I want to be able to call or text when your feeling down and cheer you up. I want to be the person you come to when you're sad and the person you're with when you're happy and laughing. I'm a romantic at heart and want someone who can appreciate that about me. At the end of the day, I just want a teammate to enjoy life with.

Date a soulmate from United States. I've been described as a teddy bear, but can be like a grizzly bear at times. Like going dancing and love the movies, although can be picky about presentation. I'm more technically minded. Am the type that sometimes forgets birthdays ( including my own ) but can come up with flowers or weekend getaways for no reason. I love surprising people just to see the reaction. Have been told by friends that know me for years that they still haven't figured me out. I'd like to meet someone who enjoys being with someone but doesn't make their life revolve around that person. Family and friends are very important and being with that someone special is icing on the cake.