Date men from United States / California / Carlsbad, 45 year old

Date a man from Carlsbad, United States. So... about me - I have been single for about a year - divorce should be final next month (and yes, I am over my ex).
Who am I looking for? Someone who is happy, caring, honest and values the same in someone.
I am honest and hard working and lhave many of the pieces of this puzzle put together but I am hoping to find a genuine and down to earth friend that will hopefully grow into something meaningful.
I am definitely a shorts and flip-flops kind of guy but I can also "clean up" pretty well.
I still believe in happily ever after.
Yes, I have 3 young kids - one of them is here in California and the other 2 are out of state. I see and talk with them as much as I possibly can and I am grateful everyday they are in my life.
Try an email if you think you may want to talk.
My subscription ends in a few days and I hope to not renew - just saying..

Meet a soulmate from Carlsbad, United States. Here goes, I am first and foremost the father of two great little girls that I am lucky enough to have 1/2 the time. We spend our time surfing, getting out and about and having fun.
I just finished my Bachelors Degree in Computer Science, yes a geek, and landed a great new job that I love.
For fun, I love to travel, although I haven't for a bit with everything that's been going on. I would love to get back to some great trips and find someone who is willing to pack it up and go. I love photography and have a real estate photography business I started a year ago. I also love almost anything outdoors, the beach, surf, diving, riding my motorcycle, golf, and sporting events.
I am an avid reader/learner, and am always buried in some kind of book. I enjoy good conversation, and respect those who can bring wit and knowledge to the table. I am very attracted to woman who have an education, can teach me a thing or two, and carry themselves with confidence, not self centeredness.
This is a dating site, but I am picky and don't want a bunch of dates, I'd rather meet someone, become great friends, share some stories and see where it goes.
One last note, profile pix are supposed to be how we really look, mine are all recent, in fact my main one is less than a month old. I have met some people here who do not look like their pictures, and have been courteous to a fault even when being duped. Please be honest, that way you aren't wasting your time or mine.

Date single man from Carlsbad, United States. It was a brisk, clear north county night and I found myself surfing the interweb. Rio, Berlin, South of France - I was looking at all sorts of places. I'd been working a lot at the new job, making big software deals with all the tech boys from up North. I wanted to get out of town, take a break from it all, get a fresh perspective. Sure, I've been around this big blue ball a few times but there are still some spots I want to see before this crazy dance is over. I poured myself a nice full glass of Malbec, sat back and turned on some music. I love music. My mind wandered from place to place and then it hit me. I need a dame. A partner in crime. Sure, I've had relationships in the past, but I need a real lady now - a confidant. "Who is this person?", I wondered. Not to hard on the eyes, I hope. Sure, who doesn't like 'em cute, but she's got to have something on upstairs too. Literature, music (God I love music), art, travel, - she has got to dig all that jazz. I smiled. Started laughing. Man life is so funny. I hope my new lady friend feels the same. Yeah thats it. That is what I want. Someone to laugh with. I stopped daydreaming and returned to my loyal mac. One minute I'm looking at beaches in Ipanema and before you know it I find myself on match.com. And that is where you come in. send me a note if you want to continue this story...

Meet someone special from Carlsbad, United States. Hello! A friend said "Try Match" and here I am. A little bit about me: I work a lot - but I still find time to get away and enjoy the outdoors...preferably any place near a beach or on the slopes (go figure?). When you meet me, you'll get a relaxed smile and a great sense of humor - or so my friends say.
I really do have fun going to a wide range of destinations and trying new things and meeting new people. I've gone to a lot of places and there's plenty more I'd like to see with someone I can call a partner and friend. Whether it's an island, on the slopes, at a marina, on the ocean, at the tennis courts, in the air, on a roller coaster, looking at classics, taking in a concert, on a zip line, camping at a park, hiking the outdoors, traveling by train, on a bus, navigating a motor home, at a stadium, or simply hanging out in the back yard enjoying a fire on a cool evening, I've done it and want to do more! If any of this sounds like fun, drop me a note and let me know what you like to do and what I'm missing - it's a big world with so many things to try and experience.
What kind of person am I looking for? Here it is plain and simple: has a mind of her own, is sincere and caring, loves to get out and try new things, can take a joke, has a great smile and uses it often.

Date a man from United States. Well this sounds like fun...I have to talk about myself and then say what I want in someone else??? The "myself" part is easy but what I am looking for proves to be a bit more challenging. I am very much open to new people and experiences and wouldn't want to exclude someone because we have a difference of opinion or like different wine/food/sports etc. I guess my point is that I don't need someone to be just like me as I'm perfectly comfortable talking to anyone and enjoy someone who challenges me, that is, with an open mind!
I am divorced and a full time dad of two awesome kids, 8 and 11 years old that I love dearly. One of my favorite activities is spending time with friends and family, usually cooking or entertaining in my backyard and often camping or traveling. My hobbies include mountain biking, hiking, fly-fishing, cars, cooking, good wine, great scotch, cheap beer, traveling, and adventure-particularly the road less traveled. I am open to anything that I could see as collecting a life experience! Although I’ve spent several months traveling through Europe and Central America, there still are many places I’ve yet to experience. I spend a good deal of time honing my cooking skills which are greatly improved as of late!
I am very honest and can sometimes be too direct which I believe is my way of avoiding b.s. in a conversation. I am sarcastic with people of similar personality and, of course, in a joking manner. I'm generous to a fault with people that I love and trust, they truly are one of life's rare gifts. My friends and family aren't perfect and that's perfectly fine.
I'm a "self-made" person, where all that I have I earned...most of the time the hard way. I'm looking to share my success in business, life, and friendships with a woman who has a similar mindset. I work hard and like to enjoy my free time to the fullest. What I'm missing is someone to share that "someday" and turn them into a plane ticket or marks on the calendar.
I'm looking for a woman to be "whole", someone who knows who she is and doesn't have to be defined by her job, money, status etc. She defines who she is. However, as a second most important trait, it would be a certain degree of levity, just not self-taxed so that when life doesn't go her way she doesn't lose her composure. Kind of like how does she react to lost luggage...you really can learn a lot about a woman who just lost her flat iron.
There is one thing, however, that we must have in common...an innate recognition in the beauty of "It's not the destination, it's the journey." and "It's not where you are, it's who you're with."

Meet a soulmate from United States. I can be a bit of a romantic but really just love to have fun. No witty lines here just a genuine person. Although I do travel extensively for work I always have free time for fun and would like to meet someone to see where it takes us. If your interested just let me know...

Date single man from United States. I am: kind, happy, old-fashioned, smart, lucky, sentimental, sensitive, funny, handsome, grateful, tall, not-bald, employed, surfer, drug free, stable, honest, hard-working, quiet, thoughtful, brave, confident, wise....
You are: smart, honest, drug-free, happy, stable, funny, sexy, not-psycho, real, confident.
Hope you are out there..... ??

Meet someone special from United States. Big hunk waiting to find the right little beauty for the rest of my life. I want to find someone who can share quality time with me and has at least a few common interests.
If you like to go to the beach, hike, bike, see movies, and music, I am your man.

Date a man from California, United States. I come from a great family who moved to San Diego back in 78, and I've been here pretty much the whole time since then. There was a period during the 90's when I lived and worked overseas, but now San Diego's my home. Interests include movies, theater, restaurants, dinner and a movie at home, happy hour with family/friends, music (listening, performing, writing), traveling (spontaneous weekend destinations are always fun), and spectator sports. I'm not the "gym rat" type, all of my exercise comes my outdoor activities which are surfing, tennis and rollerblading. I also have a mountain bike I'll ride along the coast when I'm bored, and sometimes I'll go hiking over at Torrey Pines.
I'm not necessarily looking for someone who's as physically active as I am, however she's more than welcome to join me in any of my outdoor activities. It would be great to meet someone who has time to get out and do things, whether it's outdoor fun, or just relaxing at home.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. Serious about important things; anything goes after that. I am looking for someone who has a strong enough foundation that they can laugh at themselves. Does not need someone to complete themselves but enjoys meaningful dialogue. She can be quiet and not lonely in my company. Likes to wrestle and be gentle too. Surprise me.

Date single man from California, United States. I strive to engage in life, people, adventure, and make the best of its ups and downs. Every day is not perfect but that's OK with me, and I try to accept what comes at me with grace. I like to stay very active, but when it's time to chill out I'm good at just hanging out. Regular activities include walking, hiking, working outside around the house, hanging out with friends, occasional yoga, beach, reading, movies, eating out, skiing, exploring new things in the area ... and of course lots of stuff with the kids. I don't really watch TV but keep up with news on drudge and watch movies on netflix. Favorite song lately seems to be Angie by the Stones.
I'm looking for a women who is active and sincere, with a drive or passion for what's important to her. One who is secure, but is not afraid of intertwining roots, as Khalil Gibran described relationships. Really.
Places I've Been: Hawaii, Puerto Rico (San Juan and Vieques), Vancouver BC, Norway, Okinawa, mainland Japan, Iraq (Iskandariyah and Karmah), Shanghai China, Korea. Shanghai was the most exciting; Norway was cool too. Spent 20 years in the Marines. I have a great corporate job in Carlsbad.
My maternal grandfather was a Scottish immigrant and my maternal grandmother was a French immigrant, to Canada. My mother was Canadian and naturalized over time in the US. My father's side of the family is pretty much good 'ol Irish.
I believe in the Apostle's and Nicense Creeds.
Flash: I recently have become hooked on BBC's Downton Abbey.