Date men from United States / California / Tahoe City, 45 year old

Date single man from California, United States. There is no ideal match, every relationship is different, as each person you ever meet is different. If you expect ideal, you will never find a mate. I have been accused of this, and I know that this was never the problem. The problem was that I, or she, was unwilling or unable to make the necessary changes in our lives so that the relationship could have continued to fruition, instead of an ending. I do believe with every ounce of my being that there has to be shared interests and participation together in those interests. Can I now make those changes, who's to know until you try.