Date men from United States / California / Chula Vista, 45 year old

Date a soulmate from Chula Vista, United States. I am seperated soon to be single again.Spending as much time with my kids as posible is very important .A divorce is very difficult especially for them.As for me,I'm easy going,relaxed,gentle guy who loves the outdoors,Yet a walk in the rain,a warm home cooked meal afterwards,with an old movie,sounds great.......Looking for someone to share time camping,hiking,walking on the beach....getting to know each other better. A strong friendship is very important and with that,anything is possible.................

Meet someone special from Chula Vista, United States. A respectful and loving female who knows what they want. does not use the excuse to be moody , knows when she sees me , no matteer what mood she is in. she becomes happy and everything that was bad is a lot better.someone who is romantic and loves those 1 on 1 times. also when going out , is more about who she is with, than a guy checking her out.

Date single man from Chula Vista, United States. I am very positive, happy, energetic, and love to make people laugh. I am passionate about my job but it doesn't control my life. I like watching sports, especially the Chargers and Padres. I like cycling, walking, and hiking the local trails. I still read the paper daily and I'm usually caught up on current events. Love meeting new people and can strike up a conversation about almost anything. Like going out 2-3 days a week for dinner, coffee or drinks. I'm looking for a confident, independent, secure person who has a plan, but can be flexible and even spontaneous. Someone who likes to travel and is curious about other parts of the world.

Meet a man from Chula Vista, United States. I am just too kind for my own good. I wish I could be a bad boy but it is not in my blood. I look at life as anything could happen and you make your own rules. I met someone that showed me what I was missing in my relationships, and I will not stop until I find it.

Date a soulmate from United States. What to say? What to say?? What to say???
At 42 I am at a good place in life. Sure I been through my share of ups and downs but I still wait with anticipation for what lies ahead. To me life is not something to conquer, or fear or trudge through. It is a succession of experiences to learn and grow from. The journey not the destination kind of thing!! Optimism!
So why mess with a good thing by looking for a a relationship which could potentially throw a wrench in what I have going? Probably for the same reason you are. Life is better when shared. I think we all strive for a close intimate connection with another person. That's how we are wired.
I am originally from the Northeast from a European type household. I come with values representative of that up bringing. Honest, trustworthy, hardworking, family oriented, polite and chivalrous. I am a giver and try to add more to the world than I take from it. I am a generally easy going kind of guy. Don't need drama or conflict to validate my existence.
My career continues to to take new twists and turns and I still love what I do. However it does not dominate my time as it once did. Try to maintain balance between self, work and family. My kids are growing into fine young men and it is a joy to see that. They are great to hang out with.
Like some of you, I been out of the dating game for a while. In fact I don't like the game part. If two people dig each other why can't they just say so. Do you really have to wait three days to call each other? Seems like a waste of time at this point. It is not a matter of "needing" a relationship it is a matter of choosing to.
I don't have a list of expectations of what you should be like but if you are mellow, thoughtful,real that would be a plus.I think that if it is right it will feel right and you will know.
So lets chat, talk on the phone and meet for coffee and see what happens.