Date men from United States / California / San Anselmo, 45 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Ok, here's the deal....
Mellow, drama free, and good good humor please!
I want to be challenged intellectually, but also just want to experience and learn new things together on the fly. Show me something I don't know, I'll surprise you as well. I read a book a month, not much but doable for me. Actually i'm taking Spanish classes and started rock climbing and surfing too. I'm super upbeat, I have great judgement though I try never to judge. I try to be humble, unassuming and always lend a hand to a friend or stranger. I am confident but not cocky.
My mom says I am handsome......my mom rocks!!!
Actually I almost sound like a good catch.....lol.....true no?
I want a partner to put my arm around, to hold her hand, to pull close and smell your body, yes I like to touch. I want you to slide your hand into my back pocket when we're walking, to tug my hip into yours and perhaps a light kiss.......
Well, actually I like a good kiss, what ever happened to a 10 second frenchy?!...
I'm a Golf Professional and I have to say I'm a lucky guy. Super fun, awesome places to travel, and outside always. I make a great living doing what I love. Yes that means free lessons for you! You have just have to wear a snappy little outfit and smile! Looking good is half the deal right? You'll love my course on Mt Tamalpais in Marin, wild life galore, deer, bob cat, rabbits, hawks, wood peckers, crazy wild turkeys running around....the latest little itty bitty baby quails....the size of your pinky, not kidding!! My blood pressure is always low and i'm good teaching a hands on approach ;)
You?.... Well, be fun, goofy at times, vulnerable, confident....edgy( hidden tattoo perhaps?:)).
Do you like the door held open? Being taken care of?
You'll feel safe to share your thoughts, your love and quirkiness.
Please don't be perfect, be natural. Winks and smiles are my favorite. I love that look from across the room, a little shy, but sexy.
Paol
PS what's your favorite beach or movie treat??

Meet single man from California, United States. Me: I am a kind, loyal, passionate and compassionate, respectful, stable, confident, healthy, romantic gentleman (I am boring myself now with all these adjectives). I have a real job, some smarts and I like to kiss and hold hands. I have ten fingers and ten toes (are you reading this far?).
You: "je ne sais quoi" that intangible "something". You are not cold but warm, not distant but close, not always serious but playful. I do not want to meet you in a bar or see you for the first time on a reality TV show. It would be nice to meet you as you are walking in slow motion with the wind gently blowing through your hair like in a shampoo commercial; ok, stop laughing. We have to start somewhere so please send me a message or a wink.