Date men from United States / California / Carlsbad, 49 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. “Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching.” Satchel Paige
I am happiest when I have good balance in my life. That includes almost every activity or attribute. I enjoy being active and cultured, but I also find peace at home. When I think of happy times, they are simple pleasures; taking a dog to the ocean or park, walking on the beach, cooking, hanging with friends and family.
I value intimacy and friendship. When there is a balance of giving and taking, a relationship can take flight. I don't believe that it's necessary to share all of your partner's interests. It is actually healthy to nurture your individuality and space. Once you have that personal happiness, then you can truly share your life.
I am a nurturer. There is nothing I love more than doing something for my friends and family, especially cooking. My partner must be affectionate, because I will spontaneously hold your hand or touch you tenderly. I certainly love words and quality communications, but intimacy is heaven and my most cherished form of sharing.
I am looking for a mature woman who still has an optimistic outlook. A kind soul and a zest for life are super attractive to me. Anyone can get along when happiness abounds. The true test of a lasting relationship comes when there is conflict or hurt feelings. I believe in being empathetic and avoiding or sharing blame. Another one of my favorite quotes is;
“Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there. Rumi

Meet single man from United States. Hi there! One of my favorite quotes comes from the bizarre 2009 black comedy, World’s Greatest Dad. It eloquently spoke something I have realized my entire adult life. “I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone.” said by Robin Williams' character. As for me, aside from my son, I have been alone much of the past six years… but I am happy!
I just learned this from a friend spending time in South America. "La vida corta pero ancha!" "Life is short but it can be, oh, so very wide!"
I'm a night owl. I like to go to concerts, an art gallery, or a free festival just for the experience. Not interested in prejudice, meanness or "keeping up with the Joneses."
I am “the �Nice Guy’ who finishes last.” I am too nice and, I guess, many see that as weak. I am not. I have survived much in my life and always maintained a positive outlook. I am a devoted dad. I am largely a single dad. Even when I was still married, I was pretty much the dad and the mom to our then preschool age son.
I usually don't see the need for confrontation and therefore I don’t often argue. I don’t get off on conflict or pushing each other’s buttons. It seems too many people need that type of excitement. Not me. But… don’t mess with my kid!
I find laughter exciting! I find it exciting watching my kid playing and grinning and learning.
I'm really not expecting to find love here. Just hoping for a like-minded companion. I keep having women write me and then disappear when I answer. If you're not at all interested in being my friend, please don't even contact me! Thanks.
I listen to most genres of music. Rock, Blues, and 50s and 60s Jazz are some of my favorites. Shows that I attended from the past few years: Paul McCartney, Michael McDonald, Joe Jackson, The Who, Rickie Lee Jones, Blind Boys Of Alabama (Gospel), Van Morrison, Pretenders, Blues Traveler, America, Van Halen w/ David Lee Roth!, Marcia Ball... TV: Jeopardy, Big Bang Theory, Breaking Bad, Modern Family, Shameless, The Mentalist, Sam The Cooking Guy, MASH, old BBC comedies. I watch old shows with my son such as Andy Griffith, Little House on the Prairie.
Favorite quotes: "You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows" Bob Dylan, "Oh Lord won't you buy me a Mercedes Benz. My friends all drive Porsches, I must make amends" Janis Joplin (oh wait. I don't believe in "keeping up with the Joneses"), "Wish I didn't know now what I didn't know then" Bob Seger, "If you smile at me I will understand, cause that is something everybody everywhere does in the same language" Crosby, Stills, Kantner, "You are like a hurricane, there's calm in your eyes, and I'm getting blown away" Neil Young.
I used to visit this wonderful private setting outside of Moab, Utah. A few years ago I hiked up for a couple of hours to see Delicate Arch up close in Arches N.P. Stunning! A picture from that hike is in my profile (I got rid of the beard). I hadn't done anything like that in more than 10 years. 1) Because I didn't have the right person in my life to go with me, and 2) I was pretty severely injured at work about 26 years ago. I have always been happy-go-lucky. Before and after the accident. Really!
I might take a break from Match if I haven’t found friendship. Good luck to you in your quest. And for my potential soul mate, voy a sonar contigo - I will be dreaming of you! My Spanish classes are paying off! Too bad the squiggly tilde over the n in sonar won't work in this text program.

Date someone special from United States. Easy going surfer of life seeking new friendships, companions, and "good people" to explore unique and exciting experiences, tastes, and love. Amazing things seem to happen around each and everyone of us all the time...we just need to open our eyes, minds, and hearts.
Currently not a member.

Meet a man from United States. What is very important to me in a help meet. A sensitive, and happy person who is caring respectful, and emotionally healthy. Intimate. Physically also.
Attractive, and physically fit. Looking for that life long partner, who loves people, laughter.traveling, and loves new adventures. About me. Work out three times a week, Very Athletic. Business owner.
I am easy to talk to. Not, a closed book. Hard worker, and spiritual, Love, good food. museums shopping, antiques, museums. Life to short to worry, what, you can not change. Grateful to be able to own my own Businesses, which give me freedom to have quiet time, and balance of a good life

Date a soulmate from Carlsbad, United States. I’m a good guy with a wickedly dry sense of humor. I’m a father of 3 great kids who just happen to be teenagers as well.
Originally from Los Angeles, I moved to San Diego in ’87 to start a business and raise a family. Although I did miss the traffic and the smog, I never looked back. And now, at least we have the traffic. Been in North County ever since. I work in the technology sector managing real estate software development for a company out of Dallas. Never been there myself but they tell me it’s hot.

Meet single man from Carlsbad, United States. Would you dance with me? East coast swing, fox trot, free style. Learning west coast swing. Like country road trips in vette. Spare parachute provided for passengers. Grandson is my delight. What do you enjoy?

Date someone special from Carlsbad, United States. What can I say about myself that doesn’t make me sound boastful, arrogant or just plain silly?
Here it goes... I am told by my female friends that I am a really good man who deserves a good woman. Maybe that’s why I have been single for the last few years, I just can’t find the right one and to be honest I am not a serial dater nor do I ever want to become one. I do enjoy being single but I would leave that lifestyle in a second if I could find the right woman.
Family and friends are what count in my life, the rest is just fodder. I don’t believe a career defines who you are but I am not oblivious to the fact that it is a prerequisite for most women to make sure the person they are dating is indeed working. So I will tell you that I do work, I own my own company, have been in my industry for 30 years and I have worked my way to the point where I am today. That doesn’t mean that I am loaded with money, because I am not. I learned a long time ago that money doesn’t bring happiness but it is necessary.
I enjoy Bbq’s, golfing, fishing, sports, jogging and creating great memories with friends and family. I believe in smiling and laughing until your cheeks hurt. I believe in fairness, equality, honesty and integrity.
I am a man and I don’t take that statement lightly. It seems to me there are fewer and fewer men now-a-days and that isn’t good for anyone. I believe that a man should be a protector, a provider, a bright light in the harbor, a good father, a loyal partner, a considerate lover, a reliable friend and solid human being.
That’s enough for now, there is a plethora of other things about me that you can learn after I find you.

Meet a man from Carlsbad, United States. I have a good life and looking forward to sharing it with someone special.
I enoy the beach, hiking and exploring around San Diego. Character of a person is the most important quality. Looking for someone that is smart, loving and caring.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Writing "about me" is not easy. But here goes: I value honesty, integrity and hard work. I like to have fun and love laughter. I consider myself to be very fortunate in having good health, a loving family and many very close life-long friends. You will find me to be kind, considerate, thoughtful and truly enjoy being around other people. Tend to speak my mind and can be stubborn but I do listen and consider other viewpoints to be valid. Passionate, happy, likes good conversation over good wine.
Like to sing and dance but do neither very well. Actually, I think I sound great in the shower and dance OK just about anywhere.
As far as perfect match - that may be harder then writing about myself.
I keep going back-and-forth regarding the concept of soul mate. Is there one (and only one) woman on this planet that is THE one? I really haven't decided - but that's what I want. The girl that is just right for me.
I am attracted to women with big brains, big hearts and a great sense of humor. I want smart, sexy, funny, someone I will absolutely adore.