Date men from United States / California / Carmel Valley, 45 year old

Date a man from Carmel Valley, United States. Let's see ... where do I start?
I had an interesting idea as to how to approach this. In order to come up with a fair description of myself, I asked a bunch of friends to each list a few words to describe me. There were a lot of duplicates, but here’s what they came up with; Charming, Forthright, Funny, Sincere, Intuitive, Generous, Ethical, Loyal, Well-rounded, Complex, Intense, Friend.
I guess that’s me!
I’m in a great position right now, my life has gone through a lot of positive changes in the past year and everything seems to be moving in the right direction (well, not *everything*, life always tends to through us a few challenges...). The only thing missing is that certain someone I can share it with, someone who’ll compliment my life and allow me to do the same for her. I am very open to a serious relationship, but not “desperate” to get into one.
I do have an engineering background and am fairly successful in business. I am not the sort of guy to lay around in board shorts and a ratty t-shirt all the time. I am always well groomed and often well-dressed. Unlike most guys, I hardly EVER watch sports on TV.
I am very interested in personal growth in various aspects of mind, body, and spirit. I work out pretty regularly. I can watch lectures and read about Economics, Astronomy, and Psychology (brain candy is a good thing) but I also love movies (action, comedy, documentaries, etc.). I watch very few TV shows, but my favorites are Modern Family, Mad Men, Californication, Walking Dead, and Dexter. I also tend to act like a total goofball around my niece and nephew. So if your looking for someone to laugh with, ask how your day went, and be able to count on to be there when I say I will, that's the kind of guy I am.
If you find yourself interested, say hello! Let's see what we can make happen together.
One more thing ... Ladies, I understand that most of your are BOMBARDED with messages from guys! Most guys seem to blast out messages that read like "form letters" and send them out in batches to many women at once. So I know your inbox can get quite full. I tend to take another approach. I usually send out (initiate) very few connections, simply because the chances of a reply are SO low (again, because it's hard to rise above the TONS of email that all of you ladies get). So ... I tend to respond when a woman contacts me first. It just seems more logical that way. Trust me, I am very chivalrous and very much the charming gentleman who can take the lead when it comes to dating, but in a situation such as Match.com, I am really counting on a woman to make first contact. (Plus, I must admit, it is quite disillusioning to send out 20 messages over the period of a week and get NO responses back. That's a bit of a challenge for anyone's self confidence!)
So, the long and short of all of this is ..... If you find me interesting .... just send me a note. Say hello. I'll be happy to take it from there. I know that some women may not be all that comfortable making the "first move" (and attractive women rarely have to ... because guys are relentlessly hitting on them so much! LOL), but give it a try. We may be able to share something wonderful as a result of just that small effort.
Whether or not we ever talk or meet, I wish you the best in finding what it is you are looking for. David

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