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I was recently told (by a small group of ladies at a wedding of a couple that met on-line) that I won't be single for long and my "About Me" should simpy say -
I am very intelligent, uniquely humorous, financially secure, and you will have to investigate further to learn more." (The End)
So if that's all you need, jump to the next step - email me or move on. For others that want to know more ... read on ...
I have been fortunate to experience that rare and elusive true "Chemistry"
"I like it. I love it. I want some more of it." - (you may know the musician, but Match removed his name)
Chemistry may be difficult to describe, but it's easy to recognize.
Chemistry is invisible to the eye, but perceptible to an observer.
Chemistry can never fill a container, but it can certainly fill a room.
True Chemistry is beyond this material world, but not beyond our reach.
But this next time, I want to share it forever.
I'm a real good guy. I'm not perfect, but regarded as much better than average. I am uncommon, humorous, considerate, sacrificing, caring, gentle, respectful, honorable, trust-worthy, quite amorous, passionate when appropriate, loyal, dependable, intelligent, driven, in good health (all original - no relacement parts yet), drug free, financially secure, and easy going every chance I get. I cherish family & friends. My humor is often dry and cerebral exercise is constant.
I have two beautiful young sons. My family (now “children”) is (are) absolutely the paramount facet of my life.
(I think this part scares away many, but there is often a larger return for investing early.) "Generous to a fault" - For the benefit of my soon to be ex-wife, I'll be techinically married (though legally Separated) until July 2012. However, the actual "marital relations" are long dead and gone. I'm fine to talk about it, but would not post details here.
I've already had the significant (rebound - multiple months) relationship and some other dating after I became legally Separated.
I'm ready to begin dating with a purpose and validating my belief that treating a woman with respect, consideration, appreciation, and honor is a winning formula.
I believe looks are relevant, stimulation is important, and chemistry is critical. I would like to discover my best friend to share our lives.
My date should be fun-loving, interesting, reasonably drama-free (and fully drug -free), easy going, compassionate, accepting of others, and ... stimulating. She should be comfortable and look good in casual clothes and minimal to no make up. I'm not going to judge you by education or income level. I'm not going to limit my exploration to just one color of eyes or hair. You are not being compared against a stringent checklist. (Isn't it hard enough to find that special person without restricting it further? But - respectfully - I'm not here to explore with just anyone that shows interest in me.) Help me to see why you and I may become a long term "us".
Philosophies:
Do on to others; help whoever you can; appropriately respect everyone; honesty is the best policy.
I believe that success, happiness, and satisfaction are attainable by all individuals willing to pursue it with pure intentions.
I prefer “participation” rather than “observation”.