Date women from United States / California / Santa Cruz, 41 year old

Date someone special from Santa Cruz, United States. Here I go again. I have been divorced for about 4 years and really have not done alot beyond work, family and friends. But now it is time for me to find my special love interest and spark up my love engine. If you are up for the challenge of being treated to fun loving times, I am your girl.

Meet a soulmate from Santa Cruz, United States. I believe in feeding your senses with good food, loud music, interesting people, sunshine, fresh air and moments of golden quiet.
I am quick to laugh, a little bit old fashioned, in love with music and the written word, an undercover nerd, head over heels for my 4 year old niece, a wee bit crankypants when I don't drink coffee, an introspective extrovert, fond of sarcasm, addicted tounflower seeds, contradictory, decidedly not vanilla and more than a little dorky.
I have a career that brings me joy, a twisted sense of humor, a tendency to burst into song, a medium sized graphic novel collection, a love of the bizarre, a wicked streak a mile wide, and a slightly more traditional view on how relationships work than most.
I dig long leisurely meals full of conversation and laughter, dark beer and dark chocolate, the way grass feels under my bare feet, dancing like a fool in my living room, whiskey, honesty, loyalty, daily exercise, literally stopping to smell the flowers, eating healthy more often than not, treating your friends like family and your family like friends, taking care of the ones you love, living life with no regrets, farmers markets and men who know the difference between confidence and arrogance that possess a macabre sense of humor and an old fashioned streak.
I have dreams where Morgan Freeman is narrating my life.
I once made a man laugh so hard, he dislocated a rib. No foolin'.
When finishing a book I've read for the first time, I often immediately go back to the first page and start over.
I'm active but far too clumsy to be athletic. I'm like a drunk toddler.
My mind is open, my heart is big and my laughter is loud.
I also have a soft spot for very tall, large men. Sue me..I likes what I likes.
What about you?

Date a woman from Santa Cruz, United States. Looking for a fun companion, who likes to go bike riding, dog walking, movies, concerts, romantic dinners, watching sunsets and full moons! Would like to meet a quality person who is honest, kind,respectful and passionate.
About me, well my friends tell me that I'm sweet, and lots of fun! I'm pretty independent, easy going, stable, confident. I am very fortunate to have good friends, a great career and comfortable lifestyle. I like to laugh, joke around and not take myself too seriously!

Meet someone special from California, United States. To all those fine gentlemen who just look at the photos and hopefully read the first sentences of a profile (so they can catch my warning): if you ask for the proverbial "friendship with benefits" but you really want just the benefits, please do not waste our time by approaching me. Any physical contact that is void of emotions leaves me totally indifferent at best. To all those other gentle souls who might be sincerely interested in something more substantial, I hope the following will make some sense. (The sarcasm is obviously the result of meeting too many guys who only want the benefits, but garnish it with a lot of yada yada about friendship.)
I am here because eventually I would like to find that special one who sweeps me off my feet and inspires me to be better and share all the joys of life with him. But I know chemistry is really a matter of chance; so until that special connection occurs, I am also open to meeting people for possible friendship and companionship in fun activities.
I value honesty, humor, trustworthiness and I give what I expect -or at least I do my best humor-wise. I take others more seriously than I take myself. I mean what I say and I assume you do too (hint hint). I like people who enjoy life, from the simplest to the more complex pleasures it has to offer (my personal favorites are the everyday simple pleasures, from the fresh air and sun of a beautiful day to a warm kiss). I like those who are able to recognize their blessings and be grateful for them and are caring and willing to share their strengths and weaknesses. I appreciate those who are honest with themselves and not afraid to admit their feelings or shortcomings and will gladly offer or receive a sincere "thank you" or a "sorry". I consider this openness a very attractive form of courage.
Some times I wonder what is the purpose of coming to this world, and the only valid answer I can give is loving and learning, what else? Better when mixed with plenty of laughter, since humor is really a matter of survival. I guess loving can give you the greatest lessons in life. Jimmy Hendrix said that the world would be a better place if the love for power was replaced by the power of love. If only! I don't take this in an abstract "love the world" sense. I think that if every one of us knew the power of true love in our personal lives, we would all be happier and better people and the world a better place. Because, what else is love if not caring and sharing in a way that makes the happy moments twice as beautiful and the sad ones half as burdensome?
The kind of love I hope to find includes what I call "holistic chemistry": physical and spiritual, emotional and intellectual. Sensuality is really important, but it is so much more enjoyable when it is supported by deep feelings. Looks generate the physical part of the chemistry, but what I find attractive is complemented by basic personality traits like motivation, compassion, an open mind and a positive attitude.
I know a good relationship takes a lot of work from both parts, but it also has to start with a spark. I prefer to love and not just be in love, and if I do, I tend to like everything about my man, even the things I wouldn't normally like, because they are all part of him. That doesn't mean I don't want both of us to become better for each other; it just means that I find perfection boring(if it ever exits anyway)because it has to be static to remain perfect, while I need challenge and change.
If you are still reading, you have figured out I like talking, but I enjoy listening too. Listening to people I care for, or listening to great music. There is nothing that gets to me the way music does; especially when I feel happy or sad, music amplifies that ten times over. So I am off to dance to some good Balkan gypsy or Egyptian belly-dance music. Good luck to all of us and may the universe provide what is best for each(per Jimmy Hendrix it's a matter of worldwide importance)

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I would say friends describe me as compassionate, positive, caring/kind and a "people person". I am a So Cal native athletic outdoor enthusiast who has spent a great deal of time in the Rocky Mountains, Maui and CA. I just moved back from Maui 3 months ago and very interested in meeting friends/activity partners primarily right now. I love to follow the "work hard and play hard" philosophy -to get the most out of life- and at the same time be able to achieve "balance" through relaxing moments for the mind/spirit as well. I treasure time with friends/family, enjoy cooking and remembering to get the most out of the simple things in life..You can find me in hiking/running/or biking shoes one moment and perhaps a dress other moments....! I suppose I can share more later....I am seeking an athletic, adventurous, smart, and outdoor minded guy who also has a love for the beach/ocean and mountains. He values working hard and playing hard but also is willing to try/enjoy new life experiences wether it be culture, food, music, travel, personal growth, etc. He is responsible, compassionate, fun, warm/kind, patient, flexible, affectionate, playful/silly and also stable... Again, I suppose I can share more later....I have been ready to enjoy the other aspect of life -building a family- and incorporating the adventurous lifestyle as able :-) I have been told that I have alot to offer and I just haven't wanted to settle considering all that is possible....Now that I know perfection isn't out there I am open/flexible but do find lifestyle is important. Take care and aloha.... (BTW.. My actual age is a brand new 44 but everyone thinks I'm fitter than 30 year olds...and I'm used to dating younger, so lets meet if you want to join me in achieving all that is possible..!)

Meet a woman from California, United States. I recently ran into a guy at Rosewood whose friend I'd dated just after high school. I asked him how he would've described me back then and he said, 'Smart, natural, and fun'. Nice guy. I'm still the same, but I've learned a ton along the way.
I'm at my best when I'm busy but I treasure unwinding. I'm thankful I've found a profession I love that takes me from Santa Cruz to the Peninsula, where I grew up. I usually think outside the box and prefer to try to innovate rather than blindly follow the status quo. I'm driven and usually give things my all. I'm happiest when I'm not doing the same thing every day and when I'm using the creative side of my brain at work or at play.
I've always been a balanced, grounded, healthy, open, trusting and optimistic person. I'm not afraid to be alone and I don't need to be the center of attention at a party. I have good common sense. I've learned to check in with my gut, heart and mind to make good choices that take me where I want to go. I can quickly delve beneath the surface and frequently hear, "I don't usually tell people that!' I've been told I'm trustworthy, straightforward, and a good listener. Maybe that's why. I don't play games and I mean what I say.
I love adventure and excitement, especially in day-to-day stuff, and if there's an edge to it I'm extra game. I don't think people get that about me at first. I grew up swimming competitively, and some of the most memorable times were when we girls would chase the boys around their locker room -- or was it the other way around? I'll try anything once; I like to learn new things. I like little surprises; it's the thought behind them that moves me. From backpacking to jet-setting, or even doing both on the same day, personal time can be very active or I can be content to simply watch the rain come down and play Scrabble. I like someone who's got a fun and positive sense of humor. I have one, and though it's subtle, punny and dry, it's pervasive throughout work and play.
I'm conscious about the environment, I drive a hybrid (though a V6) and compost. I'm a minimalist and not much of a shopper, not materialistic nor pretentious. I do like nice things but I don't need them. I have good taste and I like good form. And, that's just to start...
Know that flowers in the beginning aren't as important as flowers through to the end.
Done!