Date women from United States / California / Joshua Tree, 41 year old

Date a woman from United States. My weekends generally involve rock climbing, bicycling, reading a good book, playing and listening to some music, sleeping in and enjoying a pot of tea. A good single malt or microbrew is often welcome, but I'm just as likely to stick to the chocolate. I'm really a complete heathen, which is not the same thing as pagan. I prefer to find my own brand of spirituality from within.
It isn't necessary to be an avid outdoors person, just be willing to come along sometimes. I'm looking for a nice, intelligent guy of the laid back, somewhat adventurous variety, with whom I can laugh, relax and explore the world. You should be secure and comfortable in a variety of situations, from out at a club/bar catching a concert to hiking, etc... Reliability and basic self sufficiency are big pluses.
I'm also still debating if I want to try internet matchmaking. So far, I'm mostly just playing around and haven't signed up to be able to read emails yet. I'm not so interested in paying to sign up. I'm also on one of the free sites with a different name. Chances are you can find me - this is a small town. :)