Date women from United States / California / Rancho Santa Margarita, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am a no-nonsense woman looking for a strong established, educated man. I can be very sarcastic at times yet sensitive too. Ultimately, I believe that no matter what life deals you, love and laughter are the only way through it. I am a mother of 2 boys, 6 and 14. They are my priority. I have no preference on whether or not my partner has children but they must respect the fact that I only have a short time left to guide them to be strong independent men.
Ultimately, I want a strong black man who will spoil me. A man that I can love and respect and share lots of laughs with. He should be confident enough to check me if I get out of line :) Chemistry is a must as well as intelligent conversation.
I enjoy working out, playing tennis and running. I like to spend free time BBQ-ing with friends and family and just about any sporting event.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I am looking for a honest man (you can really say that outfit does not look good), with boyish charm (sense of humor and flattering one-liners!), intelligent, who is loyal with a bit of chivalry (little gestures and nice manners)...
I am an independent, intelligent, successful woman. I enjoy my career and my home. I am looking for a nurturing relationship, communicative and long-term. What I am looking for is also what I give in return. I am well balanced in my life and looking to share it with someone.