Date women from United States / California / Cotati, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am a very devoted and loving person. I would rather make someone else happy before myself. I am looking for an honest and dedicated individual to share my life with. I am very dedicated to whomever I am with . Alcohol was the reason for the demise of my marriage and I have learned alot about addiction and how not to be an enabler

Meet someone special from California, United States. Seems everyone on Match is easy going and down to earth. Hmmm?
I like camping (when it is warm). I find it romantic. I am OK with sleeping on the ground but seeing people roll in with the air mattress always makes me a little jealous.
I love to travel. I have been to Spain, Portugal, Italy, England, and Australia. I have been on a cruise and not sure I want or need to do that again. Might as well go to Vegas and get off that boat when I want to.
I think people take themselves and life too seriously. We live this one life, no do overs. So why not make the best of it.
I am looking for someone who is happy and likes themselves, most of the time anyway.
I donРІР‚в„ўt care for the finer things in life. Not even quite sure what that means.
If every vacation has to center around golf I am not interested.
I do not want to climb Half Dome.
I am independent, happy, secure, adventurous, sexy, fun, non judgmental, funny, dependable, smart. All of this some of the time.
I want to travel. I want to learn to play acoustic guitar. I wish I had an old pickup truck and a dog. I don't want to party all night. I love romantic evenings at home cooking.
Are there any koi left in the pond?
I am looking for someone to enjoy some of this with. Good luck.

Date a woman from California, United States. Right now I am looking for someone who likes to be happy. Not at the expense of someones misery but someone who just likes to laugh, smile to get threw life. A belief in Karma is a plus. No guessing games. I am a Mom. It is not only my job, but it is what I love doing. I am so proud of my kids and enjoy them. My friends mean a lot to me.. I have a few excellent friends that I enjoy being with. I can be silly, funny, passionate, sarcastic, dorky. If someone I love needs me, I am there.
I love going to my son's baseball games and seeing him improve all the time.. My kids are my passion. I run a home daycare so I am around kids all the time. Keeps me able to play.. But it is hard to meet new people that are not other Mom's. I have to say most men see a women walking down the street with 6 -8 kids of various ages don't stick around very long.. ; ) I try to avoid drama as much as possible. But let's face it at times it show's up.. I just deal with it and move on.. Life changes in a blink of an eye and it is such a waste of time to be negative.
I really don't know how to talk about myself.. I'm most comfy in jeans and a T-shirt. But can get dressed up and hold my own when needed. I tend to adapt to most situations and make the best of them..I prefer a cold beer to wine most days. .
I love to be near the water. Weather it's plopped down in a chair with a book enjoying the sun. Jumping into the pool, or relaxing in the hot tub.. Hanging out with friends at the river, laying on a blanket at the beach watching the star's. I haven't gotten to wake board in a few years. :( But used to enjoy it.. I miss owning a boat..
OK, I have babbeled on for a bit. But it really doesn't cover me much.. So if you have a question just ask.. :)

Meet a soulmate from Cotati, United States. The first thing most notice about me is my smile. Life may not be easy, but I love every moment of it. I have accepted myself for who I am, and I am happy with it. You get what you see with me. I would love to meet someone who feels the same. Life is too precious , and our time too short to waste trying to change that which we cannot . Serial daters need not apply. I have no interest in men who need to date several woman at once. I do not believe we should settle, for the moment we do....we get less than we deserve.