Date women from United States / California / Carpinteria, 41 year old

Date someone special from Carpinteria, United States. I am looking for a man who is kind, loving, and giving. I am very outgoing, active, and fun. I am looking for someone who also shares these similar traits. My ideal man is loved by everyone he knows. He is a stand-up kind of man, who also has friends of similar quality. He must also challenge me in every aspect. I am attracted to a strong, confident ,athletic and witty man. I also am looking for someone who is ethical, grounded, independent and driven. Am I asking for too much? No because I know you are out there and I can't wait to meet you!

Meet a soulmate from Carpinteria, United States. I'm single and really not sure what I am looking for. I guess I will know if or when something happens. I am generally an optimistic person, honest and am drama free, and prefer to remain that way. If I were to find someone they would have to similar interests, the outdoors, sporting events, concerts and the like.
I love my job and spend alot of time with my boss. I don't go out to clubs or bars ther're just not my thing. I'm not really a drinker and prefer someone of a like mind. Is there anyone out there like this?