Date women from United States / California / Fallbrook, 41 year old

Date a woman from United States. Ok, so I decided to give this a shot again. Tried this a while ago, with not much luck, but figured why not try again? I'm going to be fully upfront and honest, so this might scare most of you off. We'll see......
I'm a sweet girl, full of fun, no emotional baggage or drama and have my head on straight. I'm an ER nurse that loves her job. I ride my motorcycle to commute as well as occasional weekend twisty rides, I also have horses that I ride in different venues and have been getting more into archery lately. I'm just as comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt as I am at a formal event. I'm really down-to-earth and love to laugh.
I'm quite humble and realize that some guys think I'm not that great of a catch, since I do have two children (although one is off to college this summer), have my parents live in my guest house (but only 8 months out of the year), and have been told that my intelligence and independence can be intimidating to guys. But I think my independence just means I can pay all my own bills and am not just looking for a sugar daddy :) I only have my kids 50% of the time, so when they're gone, the house is REALLY quiet. Who knows, I'm probably committing dating suicide by saying all this, but I really am totally honest with people in my life.
I would LOVE to meet an equal and best friend; someone to have some fun with, who would also enjoy to ride their motorcycle with me if they've got one, see movies with, explore new places, or just hang. If you can ride horses too - bonus for you! I'm looking for that awesome chemistry with someone so that I can still get butterflies in my stomach by just a simple look.
If you're actually still reading this - GREAT (I'm impressed) !! Now just contact me so we can possibly meet :)