Date women from United States / California / Santa Cruz, 43 year old

Date someone special from Santa Cruz, United States. I have twin boys that are in college and doing great. I surf often and enjoy walking on the beach (it's 7 houses from where I live so it's not a cheesy line), spending time with friends, occasionally running or hiking through a forest, cooking/baking, and eating good food. I have been in social services for over 15 years and I enjoy it. I have my life together professionally, emotionally, financially and would like to find someone else in that position. Little things in life often make me the happiest.
It is important to me that the other person has at least one thing they are passionate about in their own life. I exercise a lot because it makes me feel good, not to look a certain way. I dont own a scale or a garmin, because I like to keep things fun. I save my analytical skills for work or other areas of my life. I was a multi-sport student athlete at a PAC 10 school and competed post-collegiately until my body broke down. Although I am petite, I eat heartily every single day. Food is a joy and I do not limit myself.
Taking care of oneself for now and for the future is very appealing to me. I do not need to be with someone as active as I am but I do want to be with someone that takes care of himself. And I understand that financial security is important in life but I am not about status symbols or chasing the almighty dollar. I think a lot of surfers choose jobs that allow us to get in our fair share of water time because we value that - I am guilty of being one of those surfers.
I am looking for a positive, active and NICE man. A sense of humor is also important, because life is better with one. I do not have a set "type," of man I am looking for. I am open to new experiences with people that may be quite similar to me, but also may not. Variety can be nice. I know it takes time to build a relationship and I am hoping to meet someone that is interested in dating, having fun and seeing where things go. Ultimately, I want to find a partner for the long haul so if you know you do not desire a relationship at this time in your life, please save your time.
And a weekly highlight in my life is my "Little Sister," we were matched through a local mentoring program and she is great. We switch up our activities but favorite outings include rollerskating, going to the library, playing basketball, baking and hanging out at the beach.

Meet a soulmate from Santa Cruz, United States. I love my family, friends, sports...I have no problem throwing on a baseball cap or a classy, sexy dress... I love a great laugh... I enjoy trying new things and would love to have a special person in my life experiencing these things with me. I prefer someone who is active and enjoys working out, going for hikes, walks, bike rides, etc. Someone who will challenge me both physically and intellectually. I have a lot of energy and a very outgoing personality and would like to find someone who is confident in who they are and what they want out of their partner and life. I am adventurous and love exploring new destinations! I enjoy reading, going to the movies, going to plays and going to concerts.
I am not looking for a father or someone to control me. I am looking for a partner. Someone who will appreciate me as I appreciate him. No one is perfect...just looking for the perfect "us!"
My children are grown and I am in a wonderful place in my life. I do not think I am willing to start all over. I adore children and if you have them that is wonderful! They are one of God's greatest blessings!

Date a woman from Santa Cruz, United States. I am an intelligent, happy, and passionate woman who loves to laugh and enjoys an occassional walk on the wild side. I'm big into computers, scientific inquiry, and left-brain pursuits in general, but also have a passion for the arts and other forms of creative expression (esp. industrial design and modern architecture...so, bonus points if you live in an Eichler!). I enjoy nature and the great outdoors, but I like to experience the vibrancy and culture of a city every now and then, and would adore having a partner that also appreciates the great INdoors, if you know what I mean. :-) I am an equities trader with a healthy relationship to money and finances, and have a strong interest in the stock market and investing in general. I work part-time by choice, as this allows me ample time to explore my interests outside of the workplace. I am multilingual and have a passion for travel (esp. international, adventure, cultural, etc). I have strong family relationships, and was born and raised in Northern California (4th generation...how 'bout that!). I love to knit but don't like to crochet, so hopefully that isn't a deal breaker for Mr. Right. I have a keen sense of humor, and a man that can make me laugh usually wins the key to my heart. I am also looking for a partner with a good work/play balance in life that knows what he wants and has a no nonesense approach towards accomplishing goals and a straight-forward interaction style when dealing with others. My ideal mate is an excellent communicator that knows how to balance seriousness with a good dose of playfulness, is self-aware, passionate and hard-working, and has a strong moral/ethical compass. Fidelity, honesty, and loyalty are non-negotiables, and emotional immaturity and game playing are most definitely deal breakers. And finally, if you abhor Fox News but DO enjoy "spirited" debates with Republicans as much as I do, we just might be a match!

Meet someone special from California, United States. Me I'm a fun loving gal, who is down to earth, no drama, a good listener, a girl who wants to laugh, and explore.
Really, I want to meet someone who will eventully become a good friend, someone to laugh with, share with, cook for or with. Someone I can go camping with, fishing or explore the coast with pull along side of the road and watch the sunset with. lets enjoy life.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Let's see...in a nutshell, I'm super down to earth, witty, and a bit of a nature freak. The things that make me happy are the ocean, backpacking the great outdoors, yoga, being with people who are genuine, laughter, cooking, gardening, and my spiritual practice. I love adventure - exploring different cultures - new terrain - being spontaneous. I also have a need for quiet moments and meaningful conversation.
My goals in life? Self-awareness and love - trying to hate less and love more - be grateful for all things - see the best in others. Which I believe are life long endeavors. I tend to think and feel deeply - ponder life - look beneath the surface of things. At the same time I am light, playful, and try not to take things too seriously.
Looking to share my life with someone who is genuine, warmhearted, adventurous like me, enjoys a good laugh, has depth, and values spirituality. I truly love companionship and sharing my life with another - simple, sweet moments together, that sense of connection without saying much, being silly and playful. Above all, I need it to flow....and feel right.