Date women from United States / California / Leucadia, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. This is where I am supposed to tell you all about me right? This is the hard part, as I really don't love talking about myself. I think it is easier to show a person who you are over a period of time.
I will give it my best shot though!
I'm a bit of a conundrum (or so I've been told). I grew up with all brothers and I work in a male dominated field but I love to be feminine. I would never be described as a girly girl but one who likes to sweat, work out and get dirty but then will turn around and enjoy a sundress and a good glass of wine at the beach.
I enjoy life and being outside. Working out, being by the water, reading a good book, cooking, traveling and trying new things, are tops on my list. I'm dying to try SUP! I love hot weather..think Palm Springs and anywhere tropical with a beach. I grew up with seasons and also love to be in the snow and see the seasons.
Reading the paper while people watching at a local coffee shop is something I secretly love to do. (I guess it's no longer a secret).
I'm grateful for my close friends and family. I have the best parents in the world and they always have been and always will be my role model and biggest cheerleaders.
I would like to meet someone who already knows who they are and are comfortable in their own skin. Someone who loves their job and has their own identify but would love to share time with someone just as confident and secure. I think I should also mention this person has the ability to laugh out loud!