Date women from United States / California / Lakewood, 41 year old

Date someone special from Lakewood, United States. I would like to meet a man that's laid-back(but who
also is spontaneous). Let's get in the car and drive,
which ever direction we head in is our destination.
Wouldn't it be nice to discover what lies ahead?

Meet a soulmate from Lakewood, United States. How would I describe myself? I think i would be various characters of Angelina Jolie.. such as Lara Croft, Scenes from Mr. and Mrs. Smith and also a gentle side of Julia Russel in Original Sins. I'm soft, sexy, and also know how to work and play hard. Mind you there are times I just enjoy quiet time too. I work in the construction industry, so I like to get dirty, but then when at home the feminine side comes out. I enjoy being pampered, and am looking for a man who enjoys treating a woman like a god....haha.. jokes but not really!
I'm an easy going simple woman. I have found that as I get older my values change. No longer am I a material girl or shallow thinking about my partner. I now want a man with substance, character, and charisma. I think my perfect man would be cross between Samual Elliot, Sean Connery, and Denzel Washington. I'm looking for a man who keeps himself in shape, who is playful and is emotionally, and mentally strong.
I enjoy red wines, dining out to international foods. I am semi vegetarian, but don't care what you eat, as long as there is great conversations. Look forward to meeting new friends, and possibly more... till then...~wink