Date men from United States / California / Alameda, 49 year old

Date someone special from Alameda, United States. Me:
I am a social worker, psychotherapist, and writer who works for a non-profit health organization. I travel occasionally for work in Southeast Asia related to the prevention of human trafficking. I am good company and enjoy trying new activities, talking about books and movies, and trying new restaurants.
Odd facts about me
-Worked in college as a rat socializer
-I love food but can't cook well. But you will find no one more eager to help out with prep and dish washing.
-I have strange luggage karma. My bags get diverted elsewhere with strange regularity. The odd thing is they always go to a nicer place. I flew to DC in the dead of winter, and my bags went to Hawaii. There's a cosmic message in this that I'm missing.
You:
When I read beautiful passages, or witness some act of compassion or strength, or taste a sultry dish, I reflexively turn to you. Without your presence, life is a bit paler, less focused, less real.

Meet a man from Alameda, United States. After reading ad after ad about women seeking to find a relationship offering meaning, contentment, true love, and soul mates, I have decided that all I really want right now is a pretend relationship. The benefits of a pretend relationship lie in being able to communicate with my girlfriend about things that are really important to both of us without the added pressure of it really mattering. It's the incredible chance to be completely honest with another individual who knows this is only pretend. We needn't share family photos, introduce each other to our co-workers at parties, or share accurate personal data. I will never ask you to commit to anything important, fall in love with me, laugh at any of my jokes, or even tell your friends about me.
I wont expect you to love my cooking, my great massages, or watching movies by the fire on a rainy night. I wont expect you to talk to me on long hikes, you can listen to your music on our drives to the coast, we'll never argue about about stupid things. You can ignore my compliments, you dont have to thank me when I get the door for you or offer my coat when your cold, we don't need to sit next to each other when traveling, I wont try to charm you, be your best friend, or make you feel safe; I'm sure you have other people for that.
To be my pretend girlfriend, you must be exceedingly intelligent, articulate, and witty. Your sense of humor must be phenomenal -- I would never pretend date someone who was not incredibly funny. You should be quite beautiful with striking features, and have an amazing soul and spirit. I can't pretend with a woman who doesn't know who she is. It's essential that you have no interest in falling in love with someone who makes you feel complete. Remember this isn't for real and even though you may find true love and happiness with me that's not why we got into this together.

Date single man from Alameda, United States. Hello! I love the San Francisco bay area and enjoy eating all kinds of ethnic foods.
Things that I can't live without are my cat, garden flower, exercise, healthy food, and a person who I laugh together with.
Yes, I am looking for the last one!!!
I am looking for a lady who is my best friend and loves me emotionally and physically. Also, I support her work because we can share our work & life experience together. I am not looking for the perfect person but a imperfect person to grow together.Sounds like you? Please let me know. I will be ready! (^^)

Meet a soulmate from Alameda, United States. I'm curious about other people. I'm fit, handsome and full of life. I have a strong sex drive and like to socialize. Looking for someone who's also fit, sexy and full of life. Someone who enjoys sex often and who likes to interact with interesting people.

Date someone special from California, United States. Use to be a truck mechanic until an auto accident so now re-training as an electrcian. Being Itaalian and portuguese I tend to beleve that true passion between a man and a woman keeps the relationship strong. I guess that true love comes from above as a gift so ideally a man and a woman should pray together.

Meet a man from California, United States. I don't want someone who's high maintenance.
I have two grown kids (a son and a daughter) and one granddaughter.
I don't drink, but I do smoke cigarettes.
I make homemade rockets and fireworks.
I want someone laid back and doesn't mind a little crude immaturity.
The only concert I go to is Pink Floyd/Roger Waters.
I'm an A's and Raiders Fan.
I like shows like Pawn Stars and Storage Wars.
I'm a great cook and love to eat.
I'm not the kind of person who goes out to bars or parties.

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